♀ Guilt powerfully motivates women, but not men nearly as much. Laying guilt on a man produces unintended consequences, usually bad for her.
♀ Happiness flows from one’s gratitude. The unhappy wife has not used her mind to embed enough gratefulness into her heart. It’s not what she’s grateful for, it’s that she is grateful.
♀ Any female eagerness to hook up, couple up, or shack up shifts game rules toward the masculine side of life and severely weakens the woman’s influence for shaping their future together.
♀ Enduring love that lasts for a woman’s life is primarily built around her gratefulness for whoever and whatever fulfills her need for a stable future.
♀ Female promiscuity now floods the social marketplace. Social damage flows from the de-civilizing effect it has on males, which breeds male aggression, family irresponsibility, and violence against women and children.
♀ Feminine charm that commands masculine respect flows out of natural femaleness, feminine mystique, female modesty, faithfulness, and an uplifting spirit for both life and people. All of which are foreign to the male nature and self-interest.
♀ Feminine mystique is whatever a woman does that stimulates curiosity and keeps a man guessing, defensive, and unsure of her values and intentions about his role in her life.
♀ Feminine mystique, female modesty, religious morality, faithful monogamy, female-defined manners, and holy matrimony enable women to indirectly dominate social interaction and the culture. Men deeply respect a woman that proudly and defiantly upholds an excellent persona that men would not develop on their own.
♀ Girls appearing and acting as sluts lather grief all across their father’s pride and sink his significance as a parent. A man’s greatest fear is insignificance. If daughter kills it, he may take it out on her mother.
♀ This works. Females are born hard-headed and soft-hearted. Mother teaches them to balance head and heart. Father builds and reinforces their dual-role confidence with unconditional approval of her.
[More letters posted at 17, 32, 58, and 75]
