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75. Dear Daughter—fourth letter


When women act like men, men treat them as other guys—as competitors and eligible for physical handling.  

Courtship provides opportunity for a woman to be hard-headedly female against a man’s hard-headed persistence to have things the masculine way. Her opportunities fade after marriage, but soft-heartedness is her key to soften his dominance then.

Wife seeks to change her husband, but he resists, resents, and eventually retaliates if she keeps it up. Without exceptional respect for his woman, a man’s enduring love never arises to replace the temporary romantic love that fades in a year or two.

Women flourish with a man’s enduring love, but it arises only from his respect for women generally and her particularly. The roots extend back to their pre-conquest days.

Girls should know better than to share certain information about female uniqueness with boys. Female mystery is too powerful to toss to the immature, since it can also hold sway over mature men.

When she makes herself worthy of a man by providing sex readily, it doesn’t matter much if she’s pretty and attractive. Sloppy or comfortable may work for her, but it adds not to his reputation for having a good looker. This diminishes her worth as keeper.

♀ A woman that parents her man slowly crushes his sense of significance. It highlights his immaturity, and this shifts his mentality back toward adolescence. His ego seeks solace, so he cheats emotionally or physically.

♂ The rooster can’t crow boastfully, when he has to play second fiddle in the hen house.

♂ Men and women are so different hormonally and psychologically that couples succeed because of sex differences more than sameness.

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