319. The high cost of cheap sex—13

Cheap sex to males means no permanent obligations. The easier the conquest and escape, the cheaper the sex.
·        Cheap sex turns mature men into teen-minded boys. The things women consider vital have much less value to adolescents—personal responsibility, faithfulness, marriage, family, dependability, truthful promises of commitment, reliable pledges of devotion, adherence to vows.
·        By [...]

318. Sex differences explain men — Chap. 23

The female mindset: Women worry about three phases of sex: foreplay, intercourse, and intimacy afterward. Men don’t.
Background
·        Adolescent male nature:  Intercourse is just intercourse. Foreplay should be unnecessary but can be fun. Intimacy interferes with recovery. Who’s next?
·        Mature male nature: Certain emotional involvements—such as respect and affection for her—add meaning and necessity to [...]

306. Sex and the fickle girl — Part 14

♀  When a woman concludes that men are only after one thing, it’s because she offers too little else.
♀  Women generate their own unhappiness. A woman focuses on her man’s negatives, which worsen precisely because of her attentions.
♀  Booty call: The screwing she gets for the screwing he gets. Duty sluthood costs her [...]

304. Lifelong husbands—made, not born — Part I

Many complications muck up lifelong marriages in modern America. Five follow.
1.     The wisdom of the ages is lost. Women can’t learn from their moms, because their moms didn’t listen to their moms. It exploded four decades ago. Girls and young women rebelled and spouted slogans with revolutionary zeal: Don’t listen to anyone over thirty, [...]

302. Her sexual history — Part 09

♂?♀  Her faulty reasoning: She seeks a man’s empathy or sympathy about her ex. Whatever she gains will be lost as he ponders about or envisions her sex with ex.
♂?♀  Uncovering her sexual history is masculine due diligence. Men want to know, but least is best.
♂?♀  Knowledge is vital to his future interests. What [...]

298. Female malpractice — Part 9

♣  Relationship maintenance gone awry:  Blame or expect him to resolve whatever ails their two-way relationship. This doesn’t mean that he’s not due some blame, just that treating him as such is counterproductive.
♣  Nagging doesn’t get more offensive than that which tampers with his sense of sexual significance.
♣  Marital longevity shortens under pressure of [...]

291. Sex and the fickle girl — Part 13

♀  She can’t fix her love life, if she can’t call it broke because of her misapprehensions, miscues, and mistakes dealing with her man. Blaming him takes her eye off her relationship expertise. (She chose him, her decision prevailed.)
♀  Women look for love in all the wrong places. His love never blossoms or seldom lasts, [...]

286. Wham, bam, thank you, ma’m! — Post 5 of 5

SUBJECT: Men are not considerate of her sexual wants, needs, and desires. Granted, they should be, but….
Love sits atop but does not dominate this subject. It may overcome and hold them together, and it may not.
 ♀2♂?  If conveying her wants, needs, and desires outweigh his satisfactions about their sex life, she’s not likely [...]