People highly value the unavailable or unattainable. A male chasing a female ultimately boils down to one question: What’s her ‘price’ to be sexually attainable for him?
· The higher her ‘price’, the greater her perceived value, and the greater his effort must be to discover her ‘price’, earn her acceptance, and decide whether or not to pay it.
· Repeated refusals for their first-time sex together makes her appear unattainable. This adds value to her, escalates her ‘price’ notch by notch, keeps him guessing, and pushes him to try harder. If she holds out long enough, this makes him decide whether she’s worth her ultimate price—most likely marriage.
· Men feast with their eyes. The higher her ‘price’, the more attractiveness she adds to whatever he already perceives of her. Strengthened desire works much like a few martinis with this exception: Attractiveness swelled by martinis doesn’t last.
· He wonders: What’s her price to be sexually accessible to other men? VirtVirgin signals she’s not active. If he can’t penetrate her defenses, other men can’t either. After all, he’s First Stud in his eyes.
Before conquest, if she’s unwilling or unable to match wits and wills, his dominance will always prevail in their relationship.
[More about VirtVirgin appears at posts 125, 96, 70, 51, 44, and 25.]