584. Unmarried women shape society — Part 5

Female sexual freedom and stable marriages can’t co-exist.

♦       Unmarried women devalue virginity and abstaining on the premise that females are the same as or better than males, which entitles them to promiscuity, sexual adventurism, and even husband-stealing.

♦       Unmarried women promote female sexual freedom but still seek marriage. They contradict their own interests. Just one loose woman—whose freedom is non-judgmentally endorsed by the female subculture—can lure many husbands away from otherwise stable marriages.

♦       Unmarried women stress their independence visually instead of indirectly and thoughtfully. For example, they dress carelessly, sloppily, and even radically, when men feast with their eyes. Consequently, men focus on conquests and sex for the fun of it; little else holds masculine attention.

♦       Unmarried women—and they’re teaching girls by example—put their initial sexual encounter with a man high on their priority list. Thus, they use sex to make themselves worthy of him, which is the reverse of what works for permanent marriage.

♦       Unmarried women use casual sex to attract men, including husbands, even though this fails to earn a man’s devotion or obligate him for much beyond frequent and convenient sex.

♦       Unmarried women pursue and even initiate sexual relations with men for self-gratification. They shift men toward stud-service thinking and expanding their life away from what the majority of women seek. Elevating studliness devalues other female interests and teaches men they can disregard the hopes and dreams of females.

470. He’s Wary to Marry — Section 1

Some women drop virginity and chastity on the premise that females have the same sexual rights as males. Other women believe that having the right does not make it right.

Some women tear down masculinity to get what women want. Other women uplift manliness to get what women want.

Some women teach young girls about sex without love, abandon them to experiment, and ignore their maturation. Other women teach young girls to mature first, love next, and leave sex to marriage.

Some women discourage manly devotion by providing cheap, uncommitted sex. Other women inspire manly devotion by delaying a man’s conquest until he wants her for much more than sex.

Some women popularize the feminist ideal, which makes men retreat from committing with one woman for much more than shack up. Other women persuade a man to commit for marry up by refusing to shack up.

Some women reject the concept or refuse on principle to fill the biblical role of wife submitting to husband. Other women realize that ‘submissiveness’ is more attitude than principle, more respect than honor, more cooperation than obedience, and that high power exists in softness.

Some women use casual sex to attract men, which fails to earn a man’s devotion or obligate him for much more than sex. Other women push hard for No Sex without Marriage, which creates time to deepen his interest, respect, and devotion for one woman.

Some women make themselves worthy of a man just to have one. Other women insist a man make himself worthy of her before marriage, and then she makes herself worthy of him after they marry.

Some women seek words of commitment before yielding. Other women seek a man’s devoted actions before allowing his conquest.

Some women convince themselves that the right combination of passion, love, religious beliefs, common interests, and kids will keep their relationship together. Other women know there’s no such insurance and that special stroking of her man as king to her queen is essential.