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249. Do women know jack about Jack? —Part 15


♀?♂  When unmarried women yield the first time to a man, he wins much more than sex. Men rule over women they conquer. If she refuses, he dumps her.

♀?♂  Men see friendship differently. Women don’t fit a man’s mold of pure friendship, except when they are not sex targets.

♀?♂  Men treat women according to what they appear to be—sex object, slut, lady, sloppy, neat, pretty, immaculately groomed, careless, desperate, disposable…. That is, she’s responsible for the respect with which she’s treated.

♀?♂  Men treated as sex targets by females learn that all women have little else to offer. Let the fun and irresponsible games continue. Visible groupies are more significant than unseen bed post notches.

♀?♂  Modern female fidelity is questionable to men, because so many women sacrifice themselves at the altar of sexual freedom.

♀?♂  More than sex, men crave appreciation for who they are and what they do. If not their wife, however, sex works just fine for today—thank you very much.

♀?♂  One major facet of a man’s sense of significance rests upon not having to face men who have bedded his woman.

[More jack about Jack appears in posts 232, 217, 202, 185, 172, 162, 153, 142, 135, 132, 114, 97, 91, and 7. Scroll down or search by the number with a dot and space following it.]

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130. Hook up but no call—Part 3


It happens after one-night stands or several dates. Women hook up only to wonder why his promised call never comes! The best rule for getting a call, for getting him to come back, is: Refuse to hook up.

Her mindset governs the ringing of her phone. It starts with the presence or absence of an attitude of gratitude about herself and her potential value for a man.

If she’s ungrateful for herself and sees sex as her potential, she should expect no call. If she’s grateful for herself and sees denying sex as the tool for expanding her potential, she can expect a call.

Sex does not bond a man. It captures him for no more than conquest and maybe a few more times. So, even when he does call after hook up, she may be viewed as potential duty slut.

A woman holds a man by making him grateful for her in ways other than sex. This takes time and the delay of his conquest.

To men after conquest, sex just happens, their relationship just is, and taking her for granted comes easily. Those are natural conqueror’s rights initiated by her yielding. So, her strategy and tactics before hook up govern her life with each man.

She may not know how or want to use it, but she holds the dominant position with a man until she yields. Use it or lose it.

Denial expands her dominance. Yielding kills her dominance. If he’s hunk to her, she gets overly eager and contaminates his respect for her.

If she’s hunkette to him, he drives up his dedication to conquer; his eagerness rises. Her continued denial expands his eagerness. Eager men make phone calls.

So, her denial guarantees his call, if he’s truly interested in her. That’s how she knows his intentions. Her over-eagerness guarantees no call. Submitting to conquest leaves the call and the duty slut question up in the air.

The longer she delays their first time sex, the more she enhances herself as the relationship kingpin.

When she gives up her advantages by yielding, she forfeits the most dynamic period of gaining his respect for her. Respect won’t guarantee a call, but his earning it is essential if she expects that he will grow to love her.

After conquest he dominates, and the first conqueror’s right is to dominate their sexual agenda. That often means, move on to the next one. There’s no future with this one.

She looked good enough to chase last night, but afterward she … well, you know.

 

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68. Hook up but no call—Part 1


Women hook up only to ask the question: Why does he not call? Possible reasons apply both after weeks of dating and one night stands.

Ω He doesn’t respect you, dummy. You fell too easily for his fast talk.

Ω You were too easy to conquer and denied him the ego satisfaction of overcoming a tough sex target.

Ω You’re so easy almost any man can score. You hold little promise for faithfulness to one man.

Ω You’re a one-timer, because you don’t like and respect yourself as a unique, hard-headed female.

Ω He’s just not into pushovers except to notch his bedpost.

Ω Your round heels proclaim you have little else than sex to offer.

Ω You’ll make a good duty slut, so he’s delayed calling to be sure you don’t jump to other conclusions and to also strengthen his dominant persona.

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41. Hook up to Pain and Misery


Women want more female-type love and affection from their man, and would appreciate more platonic attention from other men. What pleases women, however, has been driven out of the cultural values that shape everyday society.

This places females at the corner of Pain and Misery trying to cross against the traffic as they head for the recycle bin. Relationships crash and loop back through a series of painful episodes for females. The series looks like this:

Hook up. Females hook up to show love that is seldom returned. Males hook up for sex and keep their true emotions hidden. Without his devotion first, she becomes either a temp or keeper, and he takes her to the next level of link up or shack up. Or, she becomes a ‘safety’ or duty slut for the next time he is left without a sex partner. Or, she registers with him as leftovers for recycling by other guys.

Link up. Females desperately link up to have a boyfriend. Males link up to have convenient sex regularly, while awaiting the next target to conquer. Men only have to show an interest in matrimony. This keeps her on the string, until he dumps her at his convenience.

Knock up. Females get knocked up accidentally or deliberately. Males knock them up and create ‘baggage’ for her—often unrepentantly too, because the pill puts all responsibility on her.

Shack up. Females shack up to test or simulate marriage on the economy plan. Males shack up for commitment-lite sex provided economically.

Marry up. Females gleefully marry up trying to go first class. Males marry but commit cautiously. She expects him to change, but he won’t. He expects her to stay the same, but she changes. Men comfort themselves ahead of time that little more than a lawyer’s fee will enable escape.

Muck up. Wives thanklessly throw up their hands in frustration at the man who ‘brung ‘em to the dance.’ He is neither good enough nor inclined to make her happy. Husbands resent wifely ingratitude, interpret it as his insignificance, and reach for the abandonment switch.

Split up. Women split up with high hopes of kissing another frog into princehood without having learned that they neutered their ex. Men ignore monogamous commitments and turn their other princely cheek to be kissed by another female—quite often, though, just his hind cheek.

Pay up for her. Women tearfully pay up and turn desperate for another frog to kiss, quite often someone else’s husband. Her life no longer matches her youthful hopes and dreams. Even when she does have a man to call her own, she calls him ‘not good enough.’

She married him ‘as is’ but cannot accept him that way. Having little or nothing to be grateful for, she burrows deeper into depressive unhappiness. A few wives earn more successful marriages the next time around, but others don’t. Their bad decisions started with hook up.

Pay up for him. Men take the hit in the wallet for having chosen the wrong woman, as they see it. So, they specialize in going blossom-to-blossom to fulfill their conquering urge. Men who have undergone the wallet-hit ignore or reject calls for commitment by another woman, because she does not carry wife malpractice insurance to pay him off the next time. Remember, when their marriage sours, men turn against marriage.

End up for her. Women end up in the recycle bin looking for another man. Sometimes she steals one from  a sister female. She is doomed to repeat living in the fast lane to pain when she starts at the top of the painful loop with another hook up. Odds are she could do better by insisting on marriage before sex. Her future brightens, if she conquers him instead of enabling him to conquer her. Remember, when their marriage sours, women turn against men.

End up for him. Men end up looking for the next conquest. They know clearly how and what they intend to avoid with the next female in their life.

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