666. The Muumuu Effect — Part II

CAUTION: I never claim that men are only after sex. I do assert, however, that it’s seldom out of their mind, and it imposes far more decision-making pressure than females experience within themselves.

Why dress to please men? Smarter women use mystery. They dress to stimulate the masculine imagination. There’s nothing like the muumuu to do that.

Remember, ladies, hunter-conqueror eyeballs are attracted to movements, and this challenges their minds to figure out what they think they see. Nothing does it more effectively than a feminine and classy muumuu. (Men disagree, of course.)

For example, to attract men among a group of women, one must stand out from the rest. If all are attired in muumuus, different movements beneath different muumuus make men choose who to pursue according to what body they imagine as most desirable for them. This means that, potentially, each woman more likely has a potential suitor, because men are much more diverse in imagination than in sex drive.   

He doesn’t wonder about imperfections under that muumuu. He sees movements that suggest a near-perfect target. The imperfections don’t register, because his mind imagines the perfect. He wants to see her as perfect, because his fired up imagination excites him, and that’s the muumuu effect.

If she’s not available for sex, he’s pushed to start imagining how to overcome her restrictions or conditions. He’s pushed to find out what she’s totally like. When she gets his mind off conquest without turning him off, she has him playing the female game.

566. Femmy Secrets for Harmony — #4

♦       She doesn’t pester her man at his work to reaffirm her feelings or relieve fears.

♦       She intuitively senses that gratitude for her man must precede his full appreciation of her.

♦       She stresses fidelity to her mate over everything else except faithfulness to God.

♦       She teaches and guides daughters to mature first, love next, and leave sex to marriage. It’s how fathers want daughters to grow up.

♦       She dreams about herself and her man as team, and what they should and can do.

♦       She uplifts his manliness and masculinity to get what she wants.

♦       She routinely keeps her own spirits uplifted by prettifying herself for different events of the day.

275. Female Fortitude—91 through 95

These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match previous posts.

91.      Male conquest is predominately a psychological victory. Later encounters with the same woman are physical. This makes their first sex together monumentally different from whatever comes later.

92.      Some women adopt stupid rationalizations: Get pregnant to capture or hold a man. A married man is better than nothing. We’re great in bed, so he must love me. If we don’t cohabit, I’ll lose him.

93.      One poor but popular strategy causes women to repeatedly lose the battle of the sexes: She thinks sex will capture a man, her romancing will confirm him as the right man, and her love will hold him.

94.      Before marriage he has her on a pedestal. After the kids arrive she puts them on the pedestal. In doing so, she nudges herself off.

95.      Women cohabit, because they are desperate to hold a man, or they seek economic advantage. Men cohabit, because she’s unworthy of marriage, he wants to keep his options open, he seeks frequent and convenient sex at low cost, or all of the above.

[Previous fortitudinals appear in posts 270, 265, 260, 255, 250, 245, 240, 234, 228, 213, 203, 199, 186, 182, and 176.]

274. Do women know jack about Jack? —Part 16

♀?♂  Men marry the unique sex target attention-getter, but how long will it last? She lured with and put his focus on sex, and so many other sex targets pass by as she and their relationship age.

♀?♂  Lower moral standards provide fewer opportunities and incentives for a man to earn recognition of women. 

♀?♂  Newly divorced men and widowers have to retest their mettle. Do they still have their studliness? Did marriage improve it or hurt? It makes rebounds easily disposable.

♀?♂  Sex easily or casually provided makes a man also look elsewhere. Sex denied makes him focus on the here-and-now woman.

♀?♂  Sex for couples just verbally committed to each other teaches men they need not devote themselves to one woman.

♀?♂  The greater the prospects of being rejected by a woman, the less likely a man will intrude on her privacy or whatever.

♀?♂  Men must be taught to treat a woman according to her expectations. They learn it best by being deprived of conquest

♀?♂  Failure to conquer intensifies his drive to overcome her resistance.   

[More jack about Jack appears in posts 249, 232, 217, 202, 185, 172, 162, 153, 142, 135, 132, 114, 97, 91, and 7. Scroll down or search by the number with a dot and space following it.]

270. Female Fortitude—86 through 90

These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.

86.   Promiscuity softens a woman’s hard-headedness and hardens her soft-heartedness.

87.   Mothers tame aggressiveness in their boys—or boys express it freely for life. Teen girls civilize boys into men—or they don’t get there. Wives domesticate husbands to settle down, or men move their manly selves around quite a bit.

88.   A woman kisses a frog…. Then, she neuters him with words that wound his spirit….

89.    Feminine mystique is whatever a woman does that stimulates curiosity and keeps a man guessing, defensive, and unsure of her values and intentions about his role in her life.

90.   Her hard-headedness tames the right man. Her soft-heartedness keeps the right man.

[Previous fortitudinals appear in posts 265, 260, 255, 250, 245, 240, 234, 228, 213, 203, 199, 186, 182, and 176.]

255. Female Fortitude—71 through 75

These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.

71.      Feminism promotes ‘get in his face’ as the way to protect a woman’s interests. This nullifies her natural strengths for shaping a man’s behavior.

72.      Men don’t voluntarily abandon the hormonal urge of being a man. But they enlarge their persona when coached to do so by one woman. Since improvement requires a man to change, respect is her key to the operating room, submissiveness her surgical instrument.

73.      He can’t be successful to himself, if others see him weakened by his wife. His competitors are outside the home, not inside.

74.      The sexual pleasures for a woman are far outweighed by the other things she needs for a happy life. Men for the most part let sex substitute for whatever else is missing.

75.      When she makes herself worthy of a man by easily or readily providing sex, it doesn’t matter much if she’s pretty and attractive. Sloppy or comfortable will work for her, but it adds nothing to his reputation for having a good looker. This diminishes her worth as keeper.

[Previous fortitudinals appear in posts 250, 245, 240, 234, 228, 213, 203, 199, 186, 182, and 176.]

250. Female Fortitude—66 through 70

These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.

66.            A woman easily kills her relationship when she exhibits female weaknesses that harden her heart against cooperation and soften her head in favor of competing with her man.

67.            She recycles to the dreaded ex side of life. Her lament: ♫Where oh when ♫is my next boyfriend? She sighs, cries, and sponges up the sympathy and encouragement of her girlfriends. But the next hook up restarts the cycle.   

68.            Women hook up only to ask, Why does he not call? Many possible reasons apply both after weeks of dating and one night stands.

69.            Feminism encourages women to value themselves individually, as men do. Femininity encourages women to value themselves as part of a couple, as Nature endows them.

70.            If her ex is going to be any different than he was in their first marriage, he needs to respect her more than before. Only that will make him favorably different, and virtual virginity earns such additional respect.

[Previous fortitudinals appear in posts 245, 240, 234, 228, 213, 203, 199, 186, 182, and 176.]

245. Female Fortitude—61 through 65

These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.

61.      If they’ve not had their first sex together, he hears, he heeds, and he modifies his behavior in whatever way he thinks will advance his agenda for bed time together. Long sex-free courtships accumulate more of his habitual changes that help fulfill her hopes and dreams.

63.      Morality serves women much more than men. If a woman fails to live within and uphold a self-imposed strong moral code, she can expect mistreatment by men.

64.      Some women discourage manly devotion by providing cheap, uncommitted sex. Other women inspire manly devotion by delaying a man’s conquest until he wants her for much more than sex.

65.      The two-year glitch arrives quietly as romantic love fades away in a couple’s second year together. Both undergo transformation. If an enduring kind of love has not developed mutually, separation is not far off.

[Previous fortitudinals appear in posts 240, 234, 228, 213, 203, 199, 186, 182, and 176.]