‘Pretty’ is how she looks to herself. She’s done her best to attire and groom herself well. Her physical attributes shine and physical weaknesses go unnoticed to her.
· Some females try to make their selves pretty, some don’t, and some don’t know how. Lack of competition to look prettier than others lets prettiness standards die within Womanhood. Men see no united front of prettiness. Consequently, they have fewer incentives to chase females, simply because female aren’t competing to look prettier.
· If women aren’t trying to appeal to men generally, men know they don’t care that much about men, which means they don’t care that much about being the kind of woman that men want to mate with, which means….
· Sexual attractiveness means a lot, but it lacks holding power of the lasting kind. Femininity and feminine charm are much better foundations. They provide female magnetism that makes men enjoy female company, overlook flaws in their physical appearance, and keep coming back for more or deeper associations. (One lady claimed that Femininity adds color to a man’s black and white world.)
· Women compete with each other to stand out, to appeal to men. They make themselves more valuable simply because they attract attention, are admired, and are therefore appreciated. Ability to stand out with both attractive appearance and feminine behaviors and without trying to gain attention, that’s the essence of ‘pretty’. Another reason appealing to the male gender is superior to trying to capture the attention of one man.
Two more posts follow on this subject.