8. Loose lips sink relationships


Women play the men’s game of pursuing sex for its own sake. She steals someone’s husband or boyfriend and expects him to be faithful, after she just taught him the rewards for infidelity.

Women abandon old school wisdom. To focus on his faults instead of affirming him, women reject being grateful for their man. They abandon old school gratitude in favor of expressing their new school dislike of male imperfections.

 

Women need a man more than men need a woman.

Happiness flows from one’s gratefulness. Wives are happy proportional to their gratitude for husband.

Citing a man’s failure to please her as a woman redounds to her disadvantage. Feelings are a minor item to him, compared to the other more important and manly actions he performs for her. Her complaints about her feelings downgrade her gratitude for him and his efforts, or so he reasons.

It’s unwise for a woman to tell her man he’s got too much on his plate of work and obligations. His natural reaction is to prove otherwise, and this expands his outside commitments.

Men are simple but direct. Women are complex but skilled for indirectness. (See post 512 for exception.) There is very little room for her directness in the domains he calls his own. There is great room for her home and family building, when she shapes his role with cooperative indirectness rather than competitive directness.

A mom’s easiest and worst mistake is this: Focus on children and relegate husband to playing second fiddle.

Her dreams can be toxic. She wants a baby badly before her body clock tells her No! So she feigns unwavering devotion to some man and marries for the wrong reasons. She has already elevated child over spouse—lethal for a lifetime together.

‘Romance’ to a woman means displays of affection that confirm and reconfirm her value to a man and his sincerity and devotion to her. Men must be taught to do such things, and non-sexual and patient indirectness is by far the best method. Timing is also critical, and the earlier in life the better, which makes teen girls critical in the development of romantic men.

Men stopped complimenting women when feminists started calling it sexual harassment. Now, women crave compliments, and most men fear to utter even the most innocent remark.

Dominance is relative in our Judeo-Christian culture. Men naturally dominate the present in both society and workplace. Women intuitively dominate the future in both home and culture. Trying to change this strategic reality leads to splitsville. 

When a woman chases a man, she becomes seller to his buyer. By not holding out for him to meet her expectations as the buyer, she cheapens herself. He buys into her eagerness as seller, but then he departs sooner or later. Too much familiarity early in a relationship breeds too little of his respect for her, and so he rejects staying with her very long.

Girls and women bypass the most effective way possible for learning how to screen and qualify men for lasting marriage—by keeping their legs crossed. Denying conquest to a man forces him to reveal his character over time. If he refuses to honor a woman’s standards and expectations, he won’t do it later in life either. If he gets aggressive, or treats her disrespectfully, he’s only after sex and not her.

Modern women forfeit what men as hunter-conquerors value highly as partner candidate:  She’s a difficult target to conquer and one to whom he’s challenged to prove his worth. Hard-to-get adds value. Round heels lowers her value. Thus, women teach modern men that relationships are, and of masculine right should be, temporary.

 

Unlike men, women tend to change whatever and whomever they find as inadequate—oftentimes parenting husbands as boys.

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8 responses to “8. Loose lips sink relationships

  1. dontdatethatdude

    I appreciate what you are saying here and agree with it mostly and hasn’t it been said and re-said in books like, The Rules, Why Men Love Bitches and others of that Ilk? There are underlying problems that need to be addressed such as low self esteem in females, love addiction and the often blatant refusal of men to meet women’s standards due to the availability of women who have none? I agree with you message and think you would attract more readers if you categorized you blog under the heading of love.

  2. Patently untrue for any man who has done any independent thinking away from our patriarchal society.

    My current husband and I started off as purely fuck buddies. I was the aggressor, telling him how I felt about him. We entered into an honest relationship, neither of us wanted commitment. This eventually changed because we came to care about each other more and more and came to realize how well we fit together. Through more of the same (open and honest communication) we came to the happily married state we are in now.

    There is absolutely no reason why a woman’s legs must remained closed to have a man’s respect. What teaches people today that relationships are temporary are a plethora of other issues, most of which harken back to our parents, or many of our friend’s parents, not being able to make it work. As well as totally unrealistic expectations around how a relationship functions in regards to both physical and emotional matters.

    The only type of man who this would apply to, is one I would have absolutely no interest in being involved with, because he believes my worth lies in my vagina, instead of in my mind. He believes “familiarity” involves my body, no sir, it does not, you are never familiar with a person until you have been with them for a very long time, and that’s because of all the mental and emotional places to explore, not the physical.

    I thank the gods every day I didn’t waste any real time with such a man.

  3. Miss Dawn

    “Men stopped complimenting women when feminists started calling it sexual harassment. Now, women crave compliments, and most men fear to utter even the most innocent remark. ”

    I am going to do some deep research into this historical phenimenon. This assertion sounds absolutly too simple to be completely true.

  4. Ellie

    “Men stopped complimenting women when feminists started calling it sexual harassment. ”

    If a handsome man says “Nice dress!” it’s a compliment, but if an unattractive man says it, it’s sexual harassment 🙂

    Sexual harassment claims should have been saved for real sexual harassment. Women using this claim inappropriately has taken its power away for women who really are harassed.

  5. Ellie

    “Girls and women bypass the most effective way possible for learning how to screen and qualify men for lasting marriage—by keeping their legs crossed. Denying conquest to a man forces him to reveal his character over time. If he refuses to honor a woman’s standards and expectations, he won’t do it later in life either.”

    Brilliant!

    Princess Ellie,
    Thank you. I love it when pretty women tell me that.
    Guy

  6. selmo

    Today, women think they are men.
    They work, they socialize, they pursue attractive members of the opposite sex with abandon.
    The problem is that, regardless of all social conditioning, women are not men.
    Regardless of your views, women are the child-bearing sex.
    Regardless of political correctness, women are physically weaker.
    Regardless of new-age thinking, women are emotionally more fragile.

    What this amounts to is something any intelligent person, capable of any independent thought, already knows–men are the dominant sex.

    All other claims of success to the contrary are simply that, unfounded claims. History proves male dominance. Feminism has managed to produce only one noticable trend in men’s behavior patterns: to favor the ease of self-gratification via internet pornography to the dangerous and taxing chore of finding out that every woman he meets is out of her mind.

    • maze

      “…What this amounts to is something any intelligent person, capable of any independent thought, already knows–men are the dominant sex…”

      Mate, we won’t be dominant today without their existance. We just have to make sure that they continue to exist and fantasize (not dream) less about love…

  7. Many thanks extremely useful. Will share website with my good friends

    Your Highness Fabio Grosso,
    Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when someone else joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.
    Guy

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