135. Do women know jack about Jack? —Part 6

A man’s love is founded on respect. And men respect women that persistently uphold values and standards that uplift women relative to men but not at the expense of men. It includes what men would not initiate on their own.

Femininity builds such respect, but Feminism discourages it.

One woman describes one way that men respond to feminine infusions: “Men need femininity. They call it ‘color in a black and white world.’ It heals their wounds, soothes their spirits and recharges their batteries. It is one of the things men look for in their wives; someone who makes them more powerful by feeding them with their femininity.” [‘Claudia’ as quoted in Keys to the Kingdom by Alison A. Armstrong, PAX Programs, Inc., p. 151]

Femininity reflects intense femaleness. It includes values, standards, and expectations on feminine mystique, female modesty, religious morality, faithful monogamy, female-defined manners, female-friendly social standards, holy matrimony, and with emphasis against offense to a woman’s sensibilities. It generates personal power dealing with men. Such individual, social, and cultural values weaken the hormone hurricane winds of male dominance into either submission or toleration.

When the female gender institutionalizes the options just cited, men learn to respect females more than males. Such unconditional respect for women generally undergirds the conditional respect for one woman that eventually transmutes into enduring love after romantic love fades.

Our old school mothers made it work, and our forefathers tamed Nature and built American greatness out of wifely inspirations, expectations, encouragements, gratefulness, and appropriate ‘color’.

Our foremothers did two things very differently than modern women. First, they competed with other women for a man with sex removed from the equation. Second, they cooperated with their husband and returned sex to the relationship. They knew male dominance has to be outsmarted and outmaneuvered and not blatantly squelched.

Further, they exploited their femaleness to clarify two very different and cooperative roles as a couple—separate responsibilities for each. With such purposely built personal advantages, our foremothers balanced relationship power themselves.

Ask your grandmother!

[More jack about Jack appear at posts 129, 114, 97, 91, and 7.]


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2 responses to “135. Do women know jack about Jack? —Part 6

  1. Kubra

    Sir Guy,
    I’ve been reading many of your posts and I have noticed you say that women need to express their femininity. What exactly does that mean? How should one express it?

    Your Highness Kubra,

    Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another pretty woman joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.

    Expressing your femininity means thinking and acting more according to your female nature than to popular notions, feminist thinking, entertainment media, and to what men with whom you’ve never had sex say they like, prefer, or are mad about.

    It means to act more ladylike, modest, mysterious, monogamous, and dedicated against sex before marriage. It means to pay more attention to your mind and heart than what girlfriends or boyfriends say.
    It means to not accept a man’s commitment in exchange for sex but require his devotion to you over and above his interest in having sex with you; devotion that enables you to hold out for marriage. It means that you compete with women for a husband and let men compete for you (even if only one is trying).

    It means to shape your life around these thoughts about how and when men marry:
    • He marries for the promise that she holds for him and not for the promises she makes.
    • He respects a woman that is distinctly different from men; she can do things he admires but can’t do himself.
    • She is more attractive to his eyes than other women.
    • He seeks her admiration and routinely expects respect, appreciation, and dependence on him.
    • He makes decisions based more on what he sees and how she acts and much less on what he hears from her that she expects him to feel.
    • He wants a virgin or near-virgin. Not because of her condition but because he expects to beat out all his male competitors and, above all, never have to look in the face a man who knew her previously (Ex-husbands are excepted but only theoretically, because he doesn’t ever want to be reminded of who got there ahead of him. It makes his sense of significance sink.)

    Those are just a few of the thoughts scattered through the blog. You’ll find hundreds more if you’re interested in figuring out how to better handle men and find, tame, capture, marry Mr. Good Enough, and morph him into Mr. Right over a couple of decades.

    If you’re truly interested in making yourself more feminine, I suggest you start with upgrading your thoughts about yourself. Namely, exploit your natural prettiness to please only one person, yourself. If the thought interests you, I suggest you study and adopt the daily practice of mirror time described in posts 1146 and 806. It’s only a start, but it’s the foundation for making yourself more attractive than other women.


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