Women don’t fall in love at first sight. They need time to study and evaluate a man’s potential for fulfilling their hopes and dreams. They infatuate easily, but it’s not the same.
However, men can and a few do. Some men see their dreams fulfilled in one instant. They value the immediate fulfillment so highly that eternal devotion and cherishment spring open for one woman. Men so enraptured dedicate themselves with little thought of the consequences except they are determined to win her for life. They can be so awe-inspiring as to appear almost irrational.
His self-energized actions during pursuit program a man’s heart and mind with stubborn, unquestioned, and highly forgiving allegiance to her for life. If he doesn’t convince himself with actions that she’s the one for life, it’s not really love at first sight. (It takes his one-purpose dedicated actions as opposed to a man’s words uttered to facilitate conquest or his woman’s claims of hope.)
Romance-minded juvenile immaturity brings out the hope of eternal love. A characteristic of teen girls, they fall in love with love and become swamped with conviction when they are in love. They want so hard to believe the frog-to-prince fairy tale holds true in real life. They often learn the hard way that it doesn’t. They usually lack the maturity to adequately screen a boy or man to judge his potential for fulfilling female hopes and dreams.
Playing hopes and dreams against reality, teen girls learn the facts about men. Unfortunately, many carry the same process into adulthood having not learned how to shape manly behavior, tune up boys to respect wives, and build compatibility with a man. However, girlhood has this crowning achievement: They fall in love with love, and it strengthens their future relationships.
Women don’t fall in love at first sight; they easily become infatuated at first sight of a dreamboat. Actually, however, they fall in love with themselves seeming to be in love, and it energizes them to assess the potential of their love target to fulfill their hopes and dreams.
Sometimes adult female infatuation becomes true love. Other times the relationship never becomes serious enough, or it falls apart quite often from the woman trying too hard. Still, at other times, the man turns out to not be Mr. GoodEnough. Thus, love at first sight is reserved for unique men who happen upon the earthly fulfillment of their dreams.