In an evolutionary manner, female sexual freedom wipes out male desire for marriage. Each new generation has to be different from the previous; sexual activity marches earlier and broader across girlhood. Thus, feminist-inspired sexual freedom escalates in the blotting out of marriage as the customary way of living together.
Men win with plenty of unmarried sex, by not having to marry to win a woman, and by living without vows to keep their hearts and minds dedicated to one woman. Women win with endless opportunities for sex. Their gender loses the unconditional respect of the male gender. Women lose opportunities to raise children under the legal wrappings of marriage. Women lose more respect of men, because many conquests makes men disrespect the female gender. Women live their lives without anyone caring about their uniqueness as individuals or being subjected to ever-increasing male dominance in the social and domestic arenas.
Feminists ridicule and devalue virginity and promote openness of sexual history in order to boast of female sexual freedom. Such behavior loudly proclaims that women are primarily what men want first, that is, easy to yield. It attacks men by weakening the ego-stroking and self-admiration of hard-fought and hard-won contests of getting a woman into bed. Feminists begrudge the male ego, but the process of proving sexual freedom devalues females for vow-enhanced marriage much more than it hurts men.
After a woman yields, her sex partner is not nearly as interested in finding out just exactly how unique she is from other women. So, her yielding makes him more temporary than aimed at permanence with her. The Marrying Man seeks to marry an unique woman, one that upholds his self-image as deserving of the best available. Her uniqueness accumulates with her other virtues when she protects her sexual assets with self-dedication that can be admired by a man. Her self-defense is more respectable and admirable than her virgin or other status and thus makes her more unique and more attractive as potential wife. He’s more concerned about her future fidelity than past events.
Grannies knew this but feminists taught women not to listen to them or mothers. Yielding sex excites a man for more. However, desire expires when romantic love fades, if not before and perhaps vice versa.
A man’s conquest destroys a female’s greatest asset because it’s her most male-sought feature, namely their first sex together. By not forcing men to accept her sexual restraint, she can’t turn her self-dedication into what men admire most and call virtue. The greater is her resistance to a man’s conquest, the greater he expects her faithfulness to him as boyfriend or husband.
Men marry for the promise they see in a woman and virtues top the list of desirables. By yielding without marriage, she loses her partner’s diligence to discover more about her likeability and other virtues. To every man she yields the first time, she makes herself less worthy of his respect, of less interest for long-range courtship, and less desirable for marriage with him.
P.S. Two conquerors face off even before the first date. The strategy of virtual virginity, described in two dozen articles listed in the CONTENTS page, strengthens a woman’s determination and reinforces her dedication to conquer him before he conquers her.