1919. Compatibility Axioms #131-140


131. The rooster can’t crow boastfully, when he has to play second fiddle in the hen house. [75]

132. Men and women are so different hormonally and psychologically that couples succeed because of sex differences more than sameness. [75]

133. Guilt powerfully motivates women, but men not nearly as much. Laying guilt on a man produces unintended consequences, usually bad for a woman. [89]

134. Happiness flows from one’s gratitude. The unhappy wife has not used her mind to embed enough gratefulness into her heart. It’s not so much what she’s grateful for, it’s that she find or create gratitude in ever broadening ways for ever more important things. [89]

135. Any female eagerness to hook up, couple up, or shack up shifts game rules toward the masculine side of life and severely weakens the woman’s influence for shaping their future together. [89]

136. Enduring love that lasts for a woman’s life is primarily built around her gratefulness for whomever and whatever fulfills her need for a stable future. [89]

137. Female promiscuity now floods the social marketplace. Social damage flows from the de-civilizing effect it has on males, which breeds male aggression, family irresponsibility, and violence against women and children. [89]

138. Feminine charm that commands masculine respect flows out of natural femaleness such as feminine mystique, female modesty, unconditional faithfulness, need of religion, pleas for morality, and an uplifting spirit for both life and people. All of which are foreign to the male nature and self-interest except as they learn differently from females in their lives. [89]

139. Feminine mystique is whatever a woman does that stimulates curiosity and keeps a man guessing, defensive, and unsure of her values and intentions about his role in her life. [89]

140. Girls appearing and acting as sluts lather grief all across their father’s pride and sink his significance as a parent. A man’s greatest fear is insignificance. If daughter kills it, he may take it out on her mother or seek admiration elsewhere. [89]

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8 responses to “1919. Compatibility Axioms #131-140

  1. Sara

    Is there another article that gives suggestions about how to evoke curiousity, as mentioned in #139? If not, do you have any suggestions?

    Your Highness Sara,
    Try 719. Feminine Mystique Explained
    Guy

  2. Tica

    Sir Guy, concerning #140, would a father regard his unmarried teen daughter’s pregnancy as a failure of leadership on his part? And would it matter if the father never married the pregnant girl’s mother? One of the most outspoken social conservatives I know of is in this very situation as father-of-teen-mom (times two) in my smallish town. The most common criticism of him is being a hypocrite. He has a seemingly respectable wife now and another new family and doesn’t appear phased. Just wondering if that kind of thing can truly be compartmentalized especially when it’s in your face every day.

    Your Highness Tica,

    Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another pretty woman joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.

    You ask, “…would a father regard his unmarried teen daughter’s pregnancy as a failure of leadership on his part?” It depends on her age and the father. Yes, if she’s promiscuous. Probably not if she is at least 18 and has one true, deep, and abiding love. Modern social values help assuage the impact on him.

    “would it matter if the father never married the pregnant girl’s mother?” Sure, but not too much. He either thinks it okay because of the example he set, or he’s a hypocrite and guilt doesn’t bother him.

    “Just wondering if that kind of thing can truly be compartmentalized especially when it’s in your face every day.” You answered your question with this, “He has a seemingly respectable wife now and another new family.” He’s trying again and hopefully for those around him expects to do better.

    Guy

  3. KitKat

    Is there anything women aren’t to blame for? Could save you a lot of time — just write an article on that subject and the last sentence could be everything else is women’s responsibility and fault.

    Your Highness KitKat,

    Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another pretty woman joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.

    Women are responsible for what they do and say. Ditto for men. As a newbie you started reading in the middle. You may find interest in the ABOUT page and the series that starts at post 1747. Those describe the foundation of this blog.

    Guy

  4. ironic

    You know l almost read the comment below and believed it. I am a Christian woman and almost believed what was written here. This statement indirectly blames women for a mans aggression.!!! If this statement were true then why in Muslim countries are the men more extremist and violent and aggressive to women when the women are obviously wearing burkas.!!!! Why was my grandfather an extremely evil, aggressive and violent man towards women when my grandmother never cheated on him.?? I agree that a man who has a woman who CHEATS on him in marriage feels like he has lost his social value and therefore could become aggressive but don’t blame ALL OF MANS AGGRESSION AND VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN ON THE WOMAN. In GENUSIS when God questioned Adam as to why he ate the fruit from the tree Adam blamed Eve and when God questioned Eve why she ate the fruit from the tree Eve blamed the serpent. Neither one of them took responsibility for their own actions, thoughts, and feelings and neither one of them apologised to God. They both passed the buck.
    I agree that PROMISUCUITY is sinful but the bible does not say FEMALE PROMISUCIUTY. It just talks about fornication and adultery. If women were suddenly chaste I very strongly doubt that the devil would back off and make the world a beautiful place to live in.
    MALE AGGRESSION, IRRESPONSIBILITY AND VOILENCE ARE JUST THAT “SIN” AND FEMALE PROMISCUITY IS JUST THAT “SIN” AND ALL SIN LEADS TO MORE PAIN AND SUFFERING.

    [From Guy’s post 1919] 137. Female promiscuity now floods the social marketplace. Social damage flows from the de-civilizing effect it has on males, which breeds male aggression, family irresponsibility, and violence against women and children.

    Your Highness Ironic,

    Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another pretty woman joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.

    You rant about couples as if the female gender has no influence over the male. If you would like more information, you might spend some time elsewhere in the blog. I suggest you read the ABOUT and scan the CONTENTS pages at blog top. Then, read the series Sex Differences Redux starting at post 1747. You may not find what you’re looking for, but you will find what this blog and human nature are all about.

    Have a great day.

    Guy

  5. ironic

    My name is not “Highness”. Its Sally. And you have a great day.

    Your Highness Sally,
    I extend the honorific to all females as the reflection of my unconditional respect for their gender. If you ask, I will drop it for you.
    Guy

  6. ironic

    And PS were l grew up women didn’t have influence over the men AT ALL! Why do think l became a Christian??? Because l saw NO LOVE anywhere. A man needs to take responsibility for his own sins and a woman hers. The women l grew up with were weak, powerless, dominated cowards who never said “no” to a man. And it was their compliance to his sins actually that caused more pain within the family. Many times as l child I witnessed cruel acts at the hands of men and the women just STOOD BY AND DID NOTHING. It made me sick.

    Your Highness Sally,
    It may not matter to you, but what you witnessed earlier was the result of poor parenting of those men and women earlier in their lives. It’s described at least implicitly many times in the blog and I’m now working to describe the birthrights of boys and girls that parents neither recognize nor use to avoid raising ‘troublesome’ children. (It’s a very difficult series and still unscheduled for posting. I hope you stick around.
    Guy

    • ironic

      I read you article on men needing respect and thought it was fantastic. I could see that working on some of the men in my family but not all. Some them were beyond respect. As Christ lowered his head and did not answer Pilates questions because they had already decided to kill him, so are some of the men in my previous family. Respect only works on good men as love does on good women.

    • “And PS were l grew up women didn’t have influence over the men AT ALL! ”

      Actually that might be true for the adult men. However at the young ages women have primary influence over men. Mothers also hit male children fifty percent more than fathers and they do so at around 900 times per year. Sounds like men are learning violence from their mothers to me.

      Father Marker, Sir,
      Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another good man joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.
      Guy

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