2091. IT’S DOWNTIME AGAIN


As you know, I am relocating and it’s time to pause posting for 10 days. I expect to return about election day, but in the meantime I’m hopeful of responding normally to many of your comments except when I’m offline between about OCT 30 and NOV 3.

I leave you with something to study. It’s the new page at blog top, HER BLESSINGS and HIS ADMIRATION. It’s the result of the new project derived from the 93 Female Blessings at Birth articles posted previously.

Ladies, may all your days brighten with new thoughts to help you figure out how to make your life more enjoyable.

Respectfully,

Guy

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6 responses to “2091. IT’S DOWNTIME AGAIN

  1. surfercajun

    prayers and thoughts go with you on your journey. 😀

    Please take care!

  2. Cinnamon

    Will be thinking of you and praying for your safe travel!

    And oh, we will miss you too 🙂

  3. How we’ll miss you and look forward to your returning.

  4. anonymous

    Hope all is going well!

  5. anonymous

    Sir Guy,
    Which one of these makes a better marriage candidate?

    1. A man who sets out looking for marriage. You don’t need to worry about his intentions, he’s looking for someone with whom to settle down and have a family. Often either A. the romantic idealist who thinks he is going to marry every girl he dates beginning in adolescence or B. The 30s man who has played the field and now feels like it’s time to settle down. Will often marry the first person he dates with this mindset provided she doesn’t exhibit any red flags.

    2. A man who does not set out looking for marriage but stumbles into it because he finds a girl he does not want to live without and she requires it. He was not thinking marriage right now, and probably wishes she wasn’t either, but he will do it in order to avoid losing her.

    Your Highness Anonymous,
    You describe them well, but the only reliable candidate is the one identified in your last clause, “he will do it in order to avoid losing her.”
    Guy

    • anonymous

      Just to clarify: at first glance it seems obvious that man 1 would be a better marriage candidate. But I worry that that type of man would be devoted more to the idea of marriage than to the woman he marries. In contrast, the second man would be marrying purely because he is devoted to that woman. And wouldn’t devotion to her be a stronger foundation for marriage? Or am I totally off?

      Your Highness Krysie869,
      You are totally ON. Anything else won’t work for long unless devotion to her alone grows over time.
      Guy

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