2102. Compatibility Axioms #561-570


561. If husband expects wife to dress seductively in public, he wants other men to admire him for having her. This reveals his self-centeredness, and when aging makes her less youthful or attractive, she becomes expendable emotionally if not physically.  [202]

562. If he were as good as she expects, he would have bypassed her and chosen another woman  [202]

563. If his commitment—whether true or disingenuous—is enough for her to yield sex their first time, his devotion will likely never grow to her later satisfaction. [202]

564. If she chases a man or men, then to the man and men she’s desperate and therefore disposable because she lacks self-respect and is therefore not respectable enough for much more than sex. [202]

565. If she is unhappy with her man, he sees it like this: Her ingratitude appears unjustified, because he is a good man doing his best. If he thinks otherwise, he does not care about her unhappiness and probably looks elsewhere already. [202]

566. When men have to make arrangements for their own meals, whatever woman they are with becomes more expendable. [202]

567. A man enjoys looking at an attractive, pleasant looking female. When his woman looks sloppy and uncaring, he’s bored, knows that he has earned more, and soon looks for something more attractive. [202]

568. She acts ungratefully with and for her man. Then she blames him for her unhappiness. Her ungrateful actions dominate her feelings. [203]

569. Jean Jacque Rousseau was wrong about many things, but not this one: “The more women want to resemble [men], the less women will govern them, and then men will truly be the masters.” [203]

570. As with all of us, he produces better when he lives for something or someone higher than himself. Another reason why married men are more successful and live longer lives than their uncommitted, unattached male brothers. [203]

 

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8 responses to “2102. Compatibility Axioms #561-570

  1. surfercajun

    561… this part… This reveals his self-centeredness, and when aging makes her less youthful or attractive, she becomes expendable emotionally if not physically. How does it reveal his is self-centeredness? does this qualify for pushing her female sensibilities away in making her uncomfortable or conforming her as she is little more as his personal whore? How does she become expendable emotionally and physically? IS he training her to become what she never would expect in a marriage or marriage bed? Does she do this to make him happy but by doing so damages herself or her self respect on how others view her (especially males) in the public arena? More skin shown the more disrespect she receives in viewing with men being more visual? Or perhaps they think even when she is sporting a wedding ring, they think she is a loose woman with loose morals?

    Your Highness Surfercajun,

    Most of your question are unanswerable in the context of this post. These aren’t.

    • “How does it reveal his is self-centeredness?” HUSBAND EXPECTS WIFE TO DRESS SEDUCTIVELY IN PUBLIC SO HE LOOKS GOOD TO HIS PEER COMPETITORS.

    • “How does she become expendable emotionally and physically?” WHEN AGING MAKES HER LESS YOUTHFUL OR ATTRACTIVE AND HIS SELF-CENTEREDNESS LOOKS FOR MORE ENVY FROM HIS PEER COMPETITORS.

    Guy

    • eatacactus

      I’m very happy to report the positive changes your wisdoms have brought and continue to bring me. Men are never as handsome as when they combine their genius and vision to further the happiness of women 🙂

      Your Highness Eatacactus,

      I love it when pretty women tell me that.

      Also, welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another pretty woman joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.

      Guy

  2. Anne

    Sir Guy, could you elaborate on your last point re: married men being more successful? My husband and I have noticed, recently, that all the higher-ups in his company are divorced. It gives us pause, especially since the new CEO seems to prefer workers who put in quite a bit of overtime & this is something we feel interferes with our family-time. We feel those who will really do well in this company are the unmarried ones who have no wife/kids to “hold them back.” How can our marriage support my husband in being sucessful when all these single guys are so much more available to work and its demands?

    Your Highness Anne,

    Yes, society seems to be trending that way. Away from wifely influence because that too is trending down. Still, married men have a lifetime stability and survivability they inherit from the presence of a female mate. It’s the nature of men and women working compatibly together.

    The present business climate is affecting families while husbands are still in the workforce. It isn’t stopping men from being more successful in life, just on the job which isn’t what life is all about except for men themselves. Which is where and when wife becomes so much more valuable.

    Guy

  3. Adrey

    “566. When men have to make arrangements for their own meals, whatever woman they are with becomes more expendable. [202]”

    Sir Guy, can you please explain to me more about this. I’m a bit confused? Thank you and I hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving :).

    Your Highness Adrey,

    Welcome aboard. It’s a great day when another pretty woman joins us on this cruise to WhatWomenNeverHear.

    You appear to be a new reader so I add this first. This blog is about the different natures of men and women, how they are born and not how they learn to live with other values, standards, and expectations.

    As a hunter-conqueror, a man’s primal urge, his greatest need, is for a place to flop, eat, throw his things, and prepare to fight tomorrow’s dragons. If he has a woman, her first duty in his mind is to support him in that effort. Simplifying the eating process is the most efficient way she can help.

    And a Happy Thanksgiving Day to you too.

    Guy

    • Adrey

      “If he has a woman, her first duty in his mind is to support him in that effort. Simplifying the eating process is the most efficient way she can help.”
      Sir Guy, thank you but I was reading it a few times I was thinking in a gf perspective. let’s say the gf does cook for him once in a while, but he doesn’t appreciate it what so ever. At they same time she doesn’t want to cook all the time because he is not her husband to be so attentive of him. Having husband benefits without the ring.

      Your Highness Adrey,
      You’re on the right track, but I must ask why he doesn’t appreciate what and when you cook for him. Is it taste of your food or his taste that you should do it regularly?
      Guy

      • Adrey

        yes he likes my cooking, but what I meant to say he doesn’t appreciate anything I do for him. His behavior shows me no devotion no effort is put in his part.

        Your Highness Adrey,
        If he finds no pleasure in pleasing you, your future with him darkens. Either he is selfish beyond acceptance, doesn’t know how to court/romance/please a woman, or you’re not important enough to him except for having a girlfriend and/or the promise of sex.
        Guy

        P.S. Another possibility: He doesn’t think he’s deserving and doesn’t know how to escape the dragging down of his self-image as a boyfriend, which translates as too little self-respect.
        G.

        • Adrey

          “If he finds no pleasure in pleasing you, your future with him darkens. Either he is selfish beyond acceptance…. Or you’re not important enough to him except for having a girlfriend and/or the promise of sex.”
          Sir Guy
          You made me think during the time he and I starting to get to know each other. He said that he was a selfish person and he only thinks about himself. He said this a few times during the beginning that should’ve of been a red flag. Also I feel that he expects so much from me and mention to cook something he enjoy eating , but he doesn’t show effort in pleasing me. He is also stingy with me and when he took me out to dinner after he said I usually don’t pay for dinner to people im getting to know. I told him what about you’re friends and family. He said that’s different but I like you so that why I’m doing this. I think he was testing me or see if he can take advantage of me when he said so are you going to pay during our dates I told no why should I pay? Me presence should be enough. He never mention it again.

  4. Cocoa

    Sir Guy, i have read this multiple times but never got it, it could be simple but i might be missing something. #562 please.
    Thanks…

    Your Highness Cocoa,

    You mean this? “If he were as good as she expects, he would have bypassed her and chosen another woman.”

    IOW, if husband were really as good as wife expects him to be, he would have been too good for her. Or, if she wants husband to be the better man she envisions, she should have married someone else.

    Guy

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