I thoroughly enjoy the recent dialogue that prompted Her Highness Cinnamon to request that I address the title subject. I waited to join in and now ignite new fuel selected to more quickly uncover hidden agendas in the marketplace.
Eric, being a man, has made his discernment. He knows what he wants. A woman either fits or doesn’t fit his good taste and judgment. A man of integrity won’t prostitute his character. He will find an efficient way to accomplish his goal.
Women like to dance around. Men are not Baryshnikovs. I suggest something like what follows below tailored to and by the personality and intent of each man.
Whether Eric or someone else, I suggest shock and awe. Otherwise, given social habits today, her attention will never focus enough on him alone for her to learn to believe in him. Without her belief in him, nothing will ever last.
Were it me, I would do the following to many and perhaps every woman worthy of dating. It screens, teaches, and spreads the word about men who know what they want and how to find women with common interest.
Within a minute or three of encountering a woman who seems good enough for me in attractiveness, I would follow my own protocol with this magnificent invitation, this one-way conversation:
“Hello. My name is Guy. I invite you on a very unique date to discuss only this one subject. I intend to marry a woman who appreciates being kept, appreciates home more than career, and appreciates the thought of us raising children together. No answer required now. Here’s my card with reasons why I think you should accept. Just notify me so I can more formally initiate our date—to only discuss that one subject.” Then I walk away.
My business card reads as follows:
I’m through trying to fool women, have them fool me, and otherwise think that Mr. and Miss Right can even exist without spending years together. My devotion and your love could possibly see us to the altar, but that only begins a good life. It takes much work after that and I’m committed to doing so.
- You think I am crazy. That’s good. It takes a certain craziness to discover good wifely potential in a woman.
- All your female friends think you’re crazy to even consider my proposal. That’s good too. I intend my wife to pay more attention to me than women.
- Yes, my entire proposal seems all about me. Where do you fit in? When you determine what you truly want your future life to look like. Not what I sell you but what you sell yourself to yourself. After that, we may find common interest, common sense, and common future.
On our date together, we will converse for one purpose behind that one subject: Decide if we might find enough common interest to have a second date, which may or may not lead to a third.
If interested, just call this phone number, xxx-xxx-xxxx.
No email or text, please. Just oral or face to face. If you accept and call, I will shift into masculine and more formal dating mode and treat you with both the respect and compliments that you deserve as woman and date.
I hope to hear from you soon. You seem very worthy of having a good man of whom you can make better. IOW, were we to ever marry, I would be marrying over my head. It sounds exciting to think of it being you.
IMHO, without shock and awe, hope fades even faster for recovery from confusion and mutual disenchantment between and even among the genders.