Women are born with the instinctive wisdom to be faithful to one man. It arises out of: 1) Self-interest of each female to have a man as her mate. 2) Understanding that fidelity to one person breeds mutual respect and vice versa. 3) Subliminal recognition that women make men better when they become more alike at wanting men to be better. 4) Women compete among themselves with the expectation that a better one is out there. Thus, females free to outdo one another raise the bar for men to clear.
Competition to capture a better man elevates womanly standards and expectations, which pushes men to improve their value, which makes better men because women seek the best or good one at least. It’s all done for the universal purpose of making one man faithful to one woman. With her man’s faithfulness, women can create and prolong the domestic life that fits their primal drive to nest, nurture, and nestle with loved ones, which fulfills their primal need for a brighter future, which also helps calm their greatest fear of being abandoned.
All that is inborn even if not used. Our Judeo-Christian culture enabled American wives’ female nature to first weaken and then leverage male dominance so that female instincts reshaped the culture into a more female-friendly society. Wives came to where they dominated American social and domestic values and standards, which made our society the greatest ever for females. Especially if judged by female freedom, domestic life, or generations of children better than the previous one. Viewing American history until the Sixties makes all that fairly evident.
Back in the day, men dominated the workplace and society, where people did what they did. Women, however, dominated the home and culture. They determined the values, standards, and expectations that determined why people did what they did to make up society.
From that historical process and background, women learned how to earn respect and charm, coax, and coach fidelity out of men as part of the process of competing for a better man. Those things go together, because an unfaithful man is not a good man. At least not good enough for a wife.
However, faithful comes in two forms and one can ruin the other. Emotional faithfulness exempts all other people, but physical infidelity threatens it. Consequently, women ‘go to war’ against their man’s physical infidelity out of fear and being hopeful of preventing the far more devastating emotional unfaithfulness.
Radical politicos and leftist revolutionaries changed all that. They stripped female dominance from our culture, if we judge it by respect of females by males, success of family life, or ever-improving generations of children—all of which are in steep decline.
Their primary weapon of change: Sex dominates the social and domestic arenas. That which our ancestors sought to keep in the home and out of mainstream exchange, is now used repressively against females. It’s easy to defend the proliferation of more open sexual relations. But no one wants to blame it for what it’s cost our American culture: less self-respect, less personal pride, less respect for opposite sex, and less respect, trust, and appreciation of others. IOW loss of American identity to the collectivism that’s required to hold so many other conflicting personal identities in check.
Women are not born with the instinctive understanding of how to fight back. They try to regain their former stature and status, but they use manly weapons and techniques. It sinks them further into the slime they naturally abhor. Single women just can’t improve, nor can they hold together, what wives used to do when they were the majority.
Men don’t help for one simple reason. Their ego, dominant nature, and primal urge to conquer attractive women benefits from cheap and easy sex. That which women tamed into female-friendliness over the first few American centuries has been lost to the return of ever-increasing male dominance.
One masculine instinct causes all the male-female turmoil. I plan to describe it tomorrow. I will show how easy to blame men, but you gotta realize that God, Nature, and hormones make them that way.