2343. RANDOM THOUGHTS—Group 99


Our forefathers sought to marry a virtuous woman, which is most easily translated as masculine admiration of feminine qualities. Modern men seek to marry a fascinating woman, which is most easily translated as sex appeal with her as seller and him as buyer. Virtuous means she’s worth the risk. Fascinating means no risk to him.

A woman can see a man being in love with her by merely imagining and wanting to believe it so badly that small indications of interest or commitment for sex substitute for his devotion. They have first sex together and her bonding confirms that she’s right. However, men are not like that. They neither bond with sex nor need devotion to conquer.

Doesn’t the Manosphere come to mind as the direction in which society trends today? Players abound for sex and go. Cougars thrive proudly. Men disrespect females and dodge responsibility for children. Dating has been corrupted to meet, greet, hook up, and now threesomes of one or both sexes. Men make no investment of self, when sex is available almost without effort.

Men avoid or leave marriage for many reasons including: 1) Fear caused by women using it to trap and financially rape husbands. 2) The female personality has turned untenable for living together; wife blames husband and his respect of her dissolves. 3) Wife turns out to be someone other than the person and personality he married. 4) Female habits birthed in feminist thought turn women unacceptable for permanent mating; men refuse to put up with her s***.

Women avoid or leave marriage for many reasons including: 1) Men or husband expects to come before her career plans. 2) Men expect to come before children of single moms. 3) Men lack sense of family responsibility. 4) Husband is emotionally unsuited to find and keep a job. 5) Lure of other females induces husband to cheat and divide his loyalty. 6) Husband’s inattention to wife’s needs. 7) Lure of men more attractive for showing affection and with apparent ability to better fulfill wife’s needs. 8) Husband turns out to be someone other than the reliable person she anticipated.

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2 responses to “2343. RANDOM THOUGHTS—Group 99

  1. surfercajun

    Fascinating means no risk to him. Why is this no risk for him? Just curious.

    meanwhile in Seattle…..((right?))
    @ Gentleman Eric

    could we please have a teaser of what you are writing? I know you must be so awful dog gone busy and all. Just a taste test of what you are thinking… a crumb really… ((oh please?? flutters eyelashes))

    Your Highness Sugarcajun,
    Fascinating because with her as seller and him as buyer, she’s easily disposable after sex.
    Guy

    • Eric

      Miss Surfercajun & Others:
      I’ve been a little sick the last couple of weeks, so haven’t finished just yet. It should be ready though in a few days. Thanks for the patience. lol

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