46. You men don’t like to listen to female advice, but here’s one lady who understands life and how the sexes differ. At post 2365 Her Highness Ari earns her place this way in the panoply of compatibility experts and blog heroes: “To put it in perspective for the men…criticism of your woman’s cooking is the equivalent of a lady’s criticism of her man’s sexual ability….”
47. Women seek equality; men seek fairness. Equality is impossible to achieve and make it stick; it takes a threat to convince, force to impose, and it never stabilizes a situation. There’s always more to do. OTOH, fairness has guided judges to settle disputes for centuries; it takes persuasion to convince and power to enforce. You’re on the right side of that PC dichotomy, so stick to your masculine nature. Fairness vs. equality is just part of human nature and battle of the sexes.
48. If you marry you want a virtuous woman, but modern women are so loose that virtue appears hard to find. It just seems that way. It takes time. While you look for weaknesses to get her into bed, you will quite naturally discover and assess every woman by how many and what kind of her qualities can you admire. Each becomes a virtue in your eyes; someone will ‘graduate’ into virtuous. Later you’ll find yourself fascinated by her and followed by the promise that she can improve your life. Gotta keep looking.