Perhaps it has always been so. Too much truth ignites firestorms of protest. This series may do it here.
A woman’s ambitions, external lures, and social pressures push on her to get what she wants, to get her way, to satisfy her sense of self-importance. Many girls and women fail to succeed; they copy boys and men. They duplicate masculine behaviors that cancel their feminine strengths.
Starting in girlhood and easily frustrated by dissatisfaction, overly excited, and intent on copying their peers, they snack excessively and endlessly sip on high calorie drinks. Trying to go along to get along, they copy and overdo masculine-like excesses that produce toxins for their self-image, self-worth, and social acceptance.
The process ignores inborn female priorities that make body appearance outrank taste buds and prioritize one’s heart above the opinion of others. Snacking too frequently and overeating regularly, they duplicate manly habits and copy peer pressures to remain part of the crowd. They effectively abandon their female nature. They live for the present rather than the future and their size continues to grow. Their natural body shape expands to their disadvantage with men. (More at post 2414 about the effects of fat in the eyes of men.)
They refuse to pay the simple if tough price of deferred gratification. They don’t prioritize their personal habits to brighten their future as mandated by their heart of hearts. Advertising their specialty as sexual availability, they try endlessly and competitively among their peers to gain a boyfriend or elevate one to fiancé or husband. Failing to recognize the cheapness of easy sex and disheartened by failure to get what they seek, frustration turns into depression.
Depressed by their appearance that doesn’t attract what they seek, they blame someone to help quench their hidden shame. They rationalize by blaming boys and men for something or other. It’s as if to say, males don’t deserve to see my natural beauty, which they have let deteriorate with bad habits.
Other bad habits spring out of a woman’s frustrations and then explode with self-doubt and loss of self-image after they see that men have little interest in them except for well-advertised sex.
Again, to convert unacceptable shame to acceptable guilt, they blame men for something—it doesn’t much matter what. However, blaming men makes it worse, because men will not respond favorably to females who blame them. Thus, blame used to assuage shame works directly against what women seek.
In those ways, modern women produce what they don’t want. It all starts with abandoning their female nature to duplicate the habits of men in specific ways that contradict the female nature. As women go, so goes society.
What happens when fat and sexual attractiveness collide? It’s next at 2414.