Women no longer appreciate that femininity adds color to a man’s black and white world. At least one woman says so in Alison Armstrong’s book, Keys to the Kingdom. Perhaps as this series continues, it may help restore appreciation, just as that book does.
I use and capitalize the terms Feminism and Femininity. They are polarized. That is, opposites of thought, attitude, and behavior. Both sides have trouble dealing with men.
- Feminism demeans the male nature in order to promote the status and political power of radical females. Femininity appreciates the male nature, applauds manliness, and encourages and rewards men to provide relationship stability, safety, and security. All of which brightens the future for feminine women and their children.
- Calling it undeserved, Feminism rejects both castle-building and hut maintenance for a man. Femininity kisses frogs, treats princes as royalty, and specializes in lavishing warmth on everyone in the king’s castle or her man’s hut. Her feminine nature senses that a wonderful family can arise out of it, especially when she does what she does best.
- Feminine women act more ladylike, which inspires men to act more gentlemanly. Ladies, especially wives, were once a unique source of power, stature, and status for females. Feminists purposely made such women objects of scorn and ridicule. They deliberately demeaned the concept of ‘lady’ out of existence. Gentlemanly behavior faded away soon after.
- Feminists treat men as undeserving of special attention and care. To neutralize male objections and perhaps vengeance, feminists eagerly compensate with frequent, reputable, convenient, inexpensive, and unobligated sex. It stymies feminine women several ways: The Marrying Man becomes less courageous about marriage. Sex for pleasure replaces sex for love and reproduction. Availability of unmarried sex separates families. Girls follow the examples set by single women and fail to teach boys the requirements and feminine expectations for domestic life. All of which make newly feminine women stand out as unique and more attractive to men who see pleasure and comfort in mating permanently.
Feminism versus Femininity. Both sides have trouble dealing with men. One side goes negative with no track record of success, and which seems progressively to be fading from too much legal success and relationship failure. The other side shines as positive influence with centuries of history endorse its return for wifely success.