Modern women compensate men for doing what disrupts family life. Ladylike standards and gentlemanly behavior are dead. Chivalry is mocked by women cursing men. Male sexual freedom shows few restraints. Erotic attire spreads the urge to merge. Immodesty, female sexual initiative, and promiscuity prevent earning masculine respect. Male character strengths weaken as less family responsibility provides less reinforcement. Strong sense of family responsibility melts when alongside an attractive woman other than wife.
Being there are two kinds of women, feminist and feminine, the foregoing describes the results that feminists have produced with each generation becoming looser than the previous. The feminine woman knows, learns, does, and expects to produce different results; she aims to create family and raise kids to be good adults rather than good adolescents aka adultolescents in adulthood. I present a few more ways in which feminine women get their way as wives by fulfilling their hopes and dreams.
- The feminine woman knows that men do not change to please a woman. However, men will morph into some other persona to conquer her. If she holds him off for months until his new persona becomes habit, the change can be permanent but not likely otherwise.
- The feminine woman knows that hormones can trump intentions in the young, and so as mother she provides guidance that prevents bad intentions from developing into habits, from which good intentions are strengthened against hormonal influence.
- The feminine woman senses and common sense reinforces that unmarried sex by other women threatens and premarital sex for her are counter-productive to her future. She can do nothing about the former but avoids the latter to help offset outside threats to her home.
- The feminine woman controls a lengthy sex-free courtship by insisting that he prove himself worthy of her. He has to ‘earn her hand’. In the process she learns his strengths and weaknesses, how to appreciate and deal with his character, and how to swivel his dominant nature into helping fulfill her hopes and dreams.
Femininity opens female minds to get what they want instead of what they don’t want. It enables women to more diligently use their natural strengths, relationship genius, and ability to identify good men, screen for Mr. Good Enough, and upgrade him after years of marriage into their own Mr. Right.