Her Highness Femme inquires: “Wouldn’t easy sex count as an unearned gift?” The answer is so simple it warrants this article.
Absolutely, Femme. You were never more correct.
It doesn’t always work as I describe, but the natural pressures that impact both sexes strongly push the results of easy sex in this direction.
It’s a major determinant of whether a woman can keep a man or not. First, men don’t appreciate unearned gifts. Second, she won’t be appreciated although the sex may be, in which case she may become lover for awhile or booty but not much else. Third, by yielding so soon she has no opportunity or time enough to earn his respect by refusing to yield her greatest asset. A man wouldn’t think of giving up such an important asset so easily, and so he isn’t about to respect a woman for doing it. A man’s love has to have a foundation of respect or it won’t last.
Thank you, Femme, for the opportunity to summarize it so clearly.