2496. Friendly Reminders — 13

  • She is future oriented. The way to a woman’s happiness is far easier than for men. First, forget happiness as a goal. Second, pursue what makes her feel important. Third, find gratitude in what she does and the people in her life. Fourth, stay focused on her gratitude including gratefulness for the problems only she can resolve and frustrations only she can overcome. She only has to recognize her gratefulness for happiness to flood her spirit.
  • He is present oriented. Lifetime happiness isn’t something he pursues. He strives to achieve satisfaction with today’s effort. Achieving that daily, he’s a happy camper. He can find satisfaction in whatever else comes down the pike tomorrow and the next day.
  • Why is the way to female happiness far easier than for men? Women are born soft-hearted and men are not. The difference enables women to more easily find gratitude in what they do and in those with whom they associate. Being more hard-headed, men seek to satisfy themselves more than anyone else.
  • When prospective parents know the sex of the fetus, they switch their thinking and emotions onto the child and away from the mother. Give prenatal glory to the expectant expert, and both mom and child will benefit the most.
  • Her femaleness makes her a sex object. Her appearance makes her a sex target. When her virtues are exposed with chastity, her virtues morph more readily into the promise that a hunter-conqueror needs to want her to the exclusion of other men.
  • Dating is to uncover likeability. Courtship is to explore personalities and expectations. Engagement is to confirm mutual worth. Marriage is to exploit their respective strengths and fulfill mutual hopes and dreams.
  • When women think of all men as dolts, idiots, etc., they more easily see what’s not admirable about their own man. When women think that men are good and worthwhile, they more easily admire their man. Moreover, admiration builds a man’s ambitions and fertilizes his sense of personal responsibility.


Filed under courtship, feminine, Her glory, marriage

2 responses to “2496. Friendly Reminders — 13

  1. Meow Meow

    Happy Fourth of July, Sir Guy! Thinking of you today and wishing you all the best.

    • Cinnamon

      The 4th verse of the national anthem:

      “Oh! thus be it ever, when freemen shall stand
      Between their loved home and the war’s desolation!
      Blest with victory and peace, may the heav’n rescued land
      Praise the Power that hath made and preserved us a nation.
      Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just,
      And this be our motto: “In God is our trust.”
      And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave
      O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave!”

      Happy 4th of July and GOD bless America.

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