At post 2593 Her Highness Beloved opened a subject about which women may want more exposure. How do men behave associating with women? The female nature senses what follows, but many women do not rely on their instincts.
In sync with courtesy and respectable introductions, on first and subsequent encounters, a man’s mind toys with thoughts of first time sex with each female. That is, those attractive enough for his taste and acceptable enough for what he thinks he deserves. (What he deserves is known to women only as his ego, aka the term that precedes blame and triggers the male psyche into attack mode as best defense.)
It’s his destiny to judge, instinctively measure her appeal to him, and appraise her for what it will take for him to bed her. Each gal who receives a favorable rating becomes a challenge. Men find self-admiration as they respond to challenges, and self-satisfaction as they overcome a gal’s resistance.
Each woman attractive enough to catch a man’s attention sparks his curiosity about her in bed, which stirs his imagination to think of her horizontally and waiting for him. Penetration is conquest; imagined penetration encourages and perhaps arouses him.
Ten, nine, and eight are great enough to mate. Seven, six, and five are at least alive. Four and below and he’s a no show. (Modern men rate women on another scale they call “crazy,” aka unsuitable for shack up or marriage and maybe not even suitable for conquest. It’s another story for another time.)
Men discriminate according to individual taste, preference, and ability to accomplish what they hope to conquer. But the nearer ten the woman, the more enthusiastic the man, and the more eagerly he will invest himself to get next to her and accomplish what he was created to do.
It’s the major part of the package we all receive at birth designed (or evolved) to perpetuate humankind. Men spread their seed liberally, mother-love raises the children that result, and life is all about women capturing men to help raise the next generation. That’s why we are all here, to fulfill God’s intent or Nature’s randomness.
What does it mean for women? His urge to conquer matches mother love in strength, longevity, and irresistible drive. While mother love and urge to conquer produce different effects, they are equivalent as the most powerful instincts in humans.
If women understood men better, they would not forego their individual roles as members of the superior gender; they would exploit it—but few know how.
Women are born with the relationship expertise necessary for mothers to civilize boys, teen girls to tame male adolescents, bachelorettes to shape ambitions toward marriage, and wives to domesticate husbands into good providers, guardians, and fathers. Females are born both interested and capable of it.
The thing that stands in their way is female unwillingness, exhausted patience, or frustrated motivation to conquer the male sex urge and control it in favor of a woman’s long range interests rather than short range pleasure.
At first encounter, two conquerors face off in the battle of the sexes. One seeks sex without obligation; the other seeks marriage before sex. There will be a winner but not necessarily a loser, and women have the most to say about the outcome.
In closing, women associate every day with hunter-conquerors in a multitude of situations. Each man’s conquering spirit is forever present. She is highly capable of mastering that spirit, if she but tries amid determination to win the battle. By doing so, she learns how to more often and effectively get her way instead of having to follow her man with little influence over their activities.