This is no alibi for men. Their weaknesses are for another day and way.
Both sexes growing up develop bad motivational habits that weaken their ability to earn what they seek later in life. Men lack the natural willfulness to self-identify, admit, and correct their weaknesses; mostly they don’t think they have any.
OTOH, women are born motivated to be good. She strives to do good and become a better person. Two options are available. She seeks to be better just to please herself. Or she does it after inspiration arises from having a man in her life. The social marketplace today favors the latter, which lets women associate more freely looking for Mr. Right. However, the former attracts more mature men who are willing to appreciate her maturity. They more readily step up to living with feminine standards and expectations that make a permanent relationship attractive to them.
If a woman spots any tendency toward the weaknesses below, then avoidance put into practice during courtship helps develop better habits for marriage. Studying each item backward may help a woman examine herself for individual weaknesses. Of course, no woman has to do such a self-examination; wives have the privilege of being bitchy, bossy, facetious, or hateful if sufficiently provoked.
The following display negative effects seen by men—e.g., bitchiness—followed by the likely cause. Men may not know what to call it, but they recognize and resent the cause:
♥ Bitchiness that flows from negative emotions aimed at him or others.
♥ Bitterness brought on by inability to make life come out as she directs or expects.
♥ Bossiness shown by interfering with decisions he makes.
♥ Busyness caused by pursuing her personal agenda rather than theirs.
♥ Carelessness prompted by her weak sense of responsibility.
♥ Facetiousness prompted by her fear of being wrong.
♥ Faithlessness that follows lack of respect of him or them together.
♥ Fearfulness brought on by mistakes or failures that she might repeat.
♥ Fussiness inspired by her desire for perfection.
♥ Hatefulness prompted by dislike of herself.
♥ Loneliness imagined and magnified when he’s not with her.
♥ Lonesomeness begrudged by husband’s need to function outside the home.
♥ Moodiness that flows from inability to control events to her satisfaction.
♥ Phoniness energized by fear that her true character will be found out.
♥ Political correctness brought on by her sense of being victimized.
♥ Quarrelsomeness that emerges from her insistence to have her way.
♥ Selfishness she was allowed to develop into habit as a child.
♥ Sloppiness that reflects badly on husband to his friends and competitors.
♥ Unfaithfulness that causes her man’s sense of significance to crumble.
♥ Unhappiness caused by her lack of self-gratitude and gratitude for others.
♥ Untidiness, the nesting merits of which she was never taught in childhood.
If she combines too many or related combinations of the weaknesses above, she can become a dysfunctional personality to live with. Not in the clinical but the compatibility sense. The kind of woman that makes divorced men assert, “I just got tired of her s***!