2782. Can He Do As He Pleases With Her?


Her Highness Magnolia inspired this long overdue post.

Q. Her question: “In WWNH you describe our nature “in the raw.” I have a question about men. Does a man in [his male nature] believe that he has a right to a woman’s body (any woman, even a stranger) that he can do as he pleases?”

A. Yes it’s embedded as a sprig of male dominance, but don’t read too much into it. The most likely outcome lies with your term “believe.” Men believe what they figure out better than what they are told. Modern men are told legally and politically that they have no uninvited access to the female body. Belief spreads from the pressures.

Much more importantly, however, his so-called ‘right’ is susceptible to the influence of the superior gender, which has more than enough ability to neutralize it. Men are dominant, but in the world of competition before a man conquers a woman, men are vulnerable to relationship expertise and female determination about right and wrong. That is, before individual conquests, women reign with control of what men want the most.

It’s much easier to believe than what women tell men in legal and political terms. In a unique contrast, men have the physical and mental strength to get their way. But women gang up and get their way by making men dance the female tune, namely he has no inherent right to a woman’s body.

But once she yields conquest, he reigns and she has no authority left to compete on the matter. She learns to cooperate and hopes he will treat her rightly. With conquered women who learn to cooperate, men have less reason to enforce their way. They lean more toward cooperation and more easily follow female expectations.

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Each sex has only one distinctly different, inborn, lifetime, and primal urge that constantly pressures men and women to interact together. Combined and with little else, those two motivational forces are capable of perpetuating the species,which seems to be a necessary outcome whether designed by God or and sought by Nature.

Men are born with the motivational appetite to spread their seed. Particulars aren’t specified, just spread it. Women inherit mother love upon giving birth, which is the primal urge to care for the children that result from males spreading their seed. Again particulars aren’t specified as we are all free will individuals. Thus, without other motivational drives, homo sapiens is perpetuated in the simplest fashion. It’s a self-perpetuating ‘human engine’ and little else is needed;  men screw, women nurse, and life continues.

Both sexes are born with free will and the desire to get their way among others. This is the chicken: Competitive fires are fueled by mothers, girls, bachelorettes, and wives getting their way by dissuading men from doing as they please with females. This is the egg: Men yield to female expectations in exchange for what females have and women are willing to trade for civilization, peace, and help raising kids.

With that behind us, your question can be answered with common sense. Does the urge to conquer women authorize men to have their way? Yes! In the absence of civilized order and peace, how else can a man be effective, live out his primary purpose in life?

To change Yes to No is the perfect invitation. Mothers civilize boys, girls tame adolescents, wives domesticate husbands, and all females rein in male aggression, train men, and expect men to provide and protect against always getting their own way with females. Men are conditioned to accept no access rights, because they are rewarded with frequent and convenient sex at the discretion of individual females.

IOW, all women have a say in preventing men from having their way with females.We call it civilization. Society is what we do. Culture is why we do what we do. Consequently, either women reign over cultural values, standards, and expectations that guide all of us, or men have their way even with strangers. It’s a great master plan that women have to bring down to the individual level. Unfortunately for modern females, old school did it better than nowadays.

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9 responses to “2782. Can He Do As He Pleases With Her?

  1. Beloved

    Oh so this explains why men in wartime are such rapists. Because suddenly the rules are thrown out the window. I was wondering how so many men who would never dream of raping in their hometowns when not soldiers could become such animals when in a war situation. I heard even the Americans sent to help the Jews were raping and also raping allied French women. If you want to elaborate on this I would love to hear your take on it. It was something that really puzzled me. I had thought maybe it was a peer pressure thing, like the other guys would call them gay or something if they didn’t participate. But still you can’t fake being aroused in order to do it.

    • Beloved

      I have another thought about this if you wouldn’t mind helping to clarify. I have heard that men think rape is abhorrent and rapists should be punished (or what they would do if they could get their hands on this or that guy) but then in the wartime scenario many have no problem with it? I’m glad this topic has come up because as a female I can’t wrap my mind around it and it makes it appear that men have zero conscience esp. when raping foreigners that are on our side. They can’t say “oh well, it’s just the enemy and we’re killing the men so the women are fair game as well.”

      Your Highness Beloved,
      Re this and previous comment about wartime rapists, look for my response on Monday as 2783.
      Guy

  2. 1jarofclay

    Thank you so much, Sir Guy. You have a wonderful way of helping me connect life’s dots.

    Magnolia

  3. Cinnamon

    But once she yields conquest, he reigns and she has no authority left to compete on the matter. She learns to cooperate and hopes he will treat her rightly. With conquered women who learn to cooperate, men have less reason to enforce their way. They lean more toward cooperation and more easily follow female expectations.

    This concept underpins what keeps a marriage together. It seems simple but requires much consideration, particularly with respect to subtleties around the concept of “buyer” and “seller.”

    Before conquest, she is the buyer and he is the seller. She cooperates overall, but competes only regarding sex.

    After conquest, he is no longer the seller, because he has achieved his objective. If she has conquered him for marriage, he now views himself as the buyer in a completed transaction. As he sees it, her role after marriage is to ensure he remains a “happy buyer,” that is, to remain the woman that he married, whose spirit of cooperation inspired him to walk himself to the altar. If she changes after marriage and shifts into either buyer mode (by making demands/criticising/complaining/becoming lazy) or seller mode (overly needy/smothering/controlling/desperate), she will alienate him. If she lacks an understanding of the male nature and adopts the standards set by popular culture, it is very easy for her to flip flop between both roles and drive her marriage into the ground.

    This is why Sir Guy says the female is the relationship expert – because after marriage she has the skills to ensure he remains a happy buyer.

    Your Highness Cinnamon,
    Very well expressed. A happy buyer means he is fulfilling his mission in life; to keep himself satisfied with himself, who he is, what he does, and who he’s doing it with.
    Guy

    • Cinnamon

      Sir Guy,

      Perhaps the more accurate term here is “satisfied buyer.” To continue with the metaphor, the central mark for him of being a satisfied buyer is the self-admiration that comes with having made a wise purchase (as opposed to getting ripped off and suffering buyer’s remorse).

      Your Highness Cinnamon,
      Yes, it’s the more accurate. Men don’t do happy; they do satisfied.
      Guy

  4. yellowblue

    Cinnamon wrote(If she changes after marriage and shifts into either buyer mode (by making demands/criticising/complaining/becoming lazy) or seller mode (overly needy/smothering/controlling/desperate), she will alienate him. If she lacks an understanding of the male nature and adopts the standards set by popular culture, it is very easy for her to flip flop between both roles and drive her marriage into the ground.)

    change the she into a he,my husband changed to the standards of pop culture and are marriage is hanging on by a thread

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