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2097. Compatibility Axioms #521-530


  1. Sexually active women highly value hunks for looks, which causes them to capture men poor for keeping. Experience with many sex partners—easy for hunks—weakens a man’s spirit for devoting himself to one woman. Each score leaches out of him a little respect for female self-protectiveness and regard for a woman’s interest. [191]
  2. It’s social custom especially regarding sex. Each new generation of females works harder to duplicate males. Females initiate everything more and more, but males retain the leadership role. They help females lower female-friendly values, standards, and expectations and to demean themselves just to please males. (And a new generation emerges with different values about every six or seven years.) [191]
  3. Women act and try to date like guys. They accept ‘whatever’ to keep a relationship going. They try to participate and enjoy masculine fun and games. They let desire to not offend a man override their nature—for example, tolerate embarrassment that offends a woman’s natural modesty. Her value as any man’s keeper weakens from not standing up for herself better if at all. [191]
  4. Girls and women adopt masculine-style sexual freedom. Females devalue virginity. Girls ditch it, and mothers don’t try hard to prevent its loss to make their girls more popular. Women think of themselves as sexually adventurous. They dismiss chastity that makes males try harder, that earns masculine respect, that primes men to devote to one woman. [191]
  5. To demonstrate their independence from men, women reject feminine virtue, duplicate masculine behavior, and even demo baser behaviors in public. By acting more like men, women hope to be more appealing. In fact, successful relationships revolve around differences between the sexes that couples reduce to compatibility. [191]
  6. If women refuse to honor the male gender as more worthy than the female gender, they kill what it takes for men to respect women as more worthy than men. It’s far more attitude than fact, appreciation than trust, approximation than precision. Caution: The reverse never happens, because men don’t respect women that portray no gender uniqueness. [196]
  7. Feminists believe that male and female infidelity are the same and equal. Not so. He cheats, and she breaks down emotionally and seeks outside help. She cheats, and his sense of significance plummets. This makes her obsolete. He maneuvers to be rid of her—sometimes harshly or violently. Of course it’s not fair, but men aren’t females regardless of how feminists hope to change them. [196]
  8. Men bond with a woman and strengthen family responsibility by making themselves useful and proving their worth as rescuers, protectors, providers, problem solvers. But his woman’s insistence on her independence turns him toward escapism in big toys, expensive adventures, irresponsibility, females. To the degree he’s not needed, he’s free and looks to have pleasure. [196]
  9. Mothers imply it. We all tend to become like those with whom we associate. Feminists for three decades claimed men to be selfish lovers, inadequate mates, and poor responders to female needs. Now, women accuse men of being irresponsible lovers, mates, fathers, and family men. They also claim that men are ignorant of female needs, wants, hopes, dreams, and relationship-building. ♫ Ta da ♫ Men no longer make good husbands. Just as feminists claimed. [196]
  10. Feminism makes the worth of men decline in female eyes. Consequently, the reverse happens too. Women receive less respectful, harsher, and even abusive treatment and then try to compensate with cheap and easy sex to satisfy men into being more reliable at helping fulfill women’s needs. It doesn’t work very long for a woman. Or does it? [196]
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541. Wonder What Would Happen — Movie Call


We all use what enters our mind, because it programs our subconscious while we do something else. Consequently, I wonder:

Old movies are filled with endearing females highly admired by men. Men made admirable simply because they honor women generally and one female particularly.

For example, in bio-pics of songwriters such as Three Little Words, men write many ballads such as Nevertheless, Thinking of You, and the title song. Each aimed to express love from man to woman or the reverse. Love epitomized on screen and modeled as females wish it were displayed by boyfriends, lovers, and husbands.

What happens to modern men, when they sit through scenes and music so enchanting for women and so distant from male-centered pop values? Of course they moan, complain, and rebel. The pop culture strongly endorses male dominance and masculine independence, and men are so set in their ways anyway.

Even if they don’t listen, however, their subconscious absorbs words, ideas, and values in tempos that soothe instead of strain, promote instead of demote femininity, warm hearts instead of loins.

The question is whether men would stay around. The answer is yes if out to conquer, no unless essential for regular sex, and maybe if they want to please her. 

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496. Boob Language — Part 17


Only men recognize the modern castrati; wusses stripped of the masculine dignity of a pretty woman alongside.

N Dates, girlfriends, lovers, live ins, fiancés, and wives advertise their man’s wussiness by appearing in public as careless, sloppy, frumpy chic eyesores, or as poster girls for garage sales. If she can’t look any better, then her man’s not much of a man—so his competitors think.

N Women fall far below what men like to see, often deliberately. Four major reasons:

1.     Women discourage men hitting on them except when she specifically invites it.

2.     Females think dressing like men makes them more like men.

3.     Men fear sexual harassment accusations. This prevents them from complimenting women about appearances, so women get little masculine feedback about their attractiveness good or bad.

4.     Men don’t complain for fear of disturbing female customs that arise from masculine-style sexual freedom.

N Women figure they only have to please themselves during leisure or shopping time. When they do dress up, they copy celebrity females that honor the feminist code for disrespecting men. (Symbolic perhaps, but perception is reality.)

N She claims to respect him but dresses as if his standards and expectations don’t matter. Her respect of him fades in his eyes, and her value declines.

N She dresses with no pride as if sweatshirt poor. Or as expectant mother with no more riches than an undersized tee shirt. Frumpy chic sends a loud message that she lacks both feminine self-respect and respect for her man.

N She sends signals of sexual objectification and adventurousness, as if she can easily be lured away from her man.   

N She avoids bright colors and copies male blandness with dull or blackened colors. She eschews looking different or as standout in appearance, but she craves manly attention. Confusion follows, because what she expects does not match her daily preparations and aspirations. Self-confidence fades, and depression threatens sooner or later.

N When shopping or running errands, she dresses sloppily and unattractively to either be comfortable or discourage masculine attention. [See posts 498 and 500 for more on this.]

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233 — Dark Side of Feminism — Part 16


 

As women go, so goes society. Feminist propaganda over the past four decades was brash and captivating. Women couldn’t resist elevating themselves relative to men.

However, it left huge piles of social and domestic debris. This major political movement now approaches implosion from fatal compressions, such as:

·        Feminists pay no attention to what men say about the subject. Men are unqualified, the culprits, the enemy.

·        Men never bought in to Feminism. Their behavior changed to ensure frequent and convenient access to sex, but their nature didn’t change. (See posts titled ‘Sex Differences Do Matter’ in the CONTENTS page.)

·        Trying to conquer natural male dominance with politics and propaganda, feminists destroyed unconditional respect between the genders.   

·        Modern men possess undependable character traits, make less than ideal mates, and lather the female gender with disrespect—no calls after his conquest, early dumping, surprise abandonment, skipping childcare payments, infidelity, weak commitment, insincere devotion, abuse, violence.

·        Men are more alien than native for helping fulfill the hopes and dreams of women for their children and future.

·        The male gender focuses on sex and conquest. Individuals take out feminist-inspired discouragements, frustrations, and rejections on dates, lovers, mates, spouses, and even children.

·        Women passed to men dominance of cultural values. Masculine values and interests dominate the pop culture, which more clearly dominates the social scene and culture as newer generations take over.

For these and other reasons, Feminism fades as obsolete. Women will soon rise up with a wiser set of cultural values to inspire men to help fulfill female hopes and dreams. Hopefully, it will be feminine and exploit sex differences instead of politically and fractiously trying to level those differences. 

 

 

 

 

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211. Dark Side of Feminism—Part 15


     Feminism conflicts with two natural principles of American behavior. First, the male sex does whatever the female sex requires for men to have frequent and convenient access to sex.

Second, men react to how women treat them. Men treated as they wish to be treated rise to help fulfill female hopes and dreams. Men treated otherwise become what individual females can’t appreciate; they fulfill unmanly but masculine hopes and dreams—toys, parties, girls.  

Feminism inspired women to treat men disrespectfully, because men refuse to step up to the feminist model of what men should be as developed by radical political activists.

It worsens. Feminist-inspired lower standards for men to have access to sex frees up men to conquer more women. Women expect a man’s commitment to be error-proof, but female sisters bait and tease his natural urge to merge.

To compensate themselves but reward men, women declare and practice masculine-style sexual freedom. Women keep lowering the bar for access to frequent and convenient sex, and then blame men for easier jumping. Blame delivers mistreatment.

Looser customs free up men to hunt and conquer. Lowering standards for sex causes women to mistreat men, because men don’t live up to female expectations. Mistreatment causes men to easily tire of or become discouraged by one woman.  

Feminists lowered the drawbridge to sexual freedom, first for men and then for women. So, men have to do little to access the good life of many conquests.

Women buy into feminist theory and dogma. They disrespect the male gender but expect to be respected as females, wives, lovers, shack ups, link ups, hook ups with call ups, and even friends offering benefits. Men continue to mostly respect feminine mystique, female modesty, self-protective standards of morality, female-centeredness, feminine uniqueness, family cohesion, and niceties and gentleness. Men don’t possess such qualities, but they like to associate with experts that specialize.

[Other posts about the Dark Side are 196, 180, 168, 157, 146, 134, 129, 123, 103, 92, 71, 50, 47, and 23. Scroll down or search by the number and then click the title.]

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206. Female malpractice — Part 5


♀♂ Women reject this truism for making marriage work: Before marriage he should prove himself worthy of her. That is, she makes him the seller and her the buyer. He peddles all his strengths, and she evaluates his character and likelihood of delivery on his promises. After marriage, she keeps herself worthy of him. That is, she becomes the seller and peddles rewards for his husbanding and fathering.

Pregnant women duplicate men with big beer bellies. They use tight clothing and masculinize motherhood. Fashion before sexiness, attractiveness, and femininity—not what men appreciate.  

Thirtysomething women without kids have no outlet for their mothering instinct. So, they parent their man.

♀ Wives treat husbands much less respectfully than they treat boyfriends, lovers, and shack up partners. Two effects: Husbands dump wives more easily. Other men see what happens, avoid marriage, and go for shack up.

Women condemn the male ego, as if they have none of their own. The feminist movement made the female ego explode. Activists took advantage.

Men seek a woman that accepts him as he is and wants to stay. Women nevertheless think they can or should change their man.

[More about female malpractice appears in posts 189, 175, 164, and 150. Scroll down or search for the number with a dot and space following it.]

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196. Dark Side of Feminism—Part 14


© If women refuse to honor the male gender as more worthy than the female gender, they kill what it takes for men to respect women as more worthy than men. It’s far more attitude than fact, appreciation than trust, approximation than precision. Caution: The reverse never happens, because men don’t respect women that portray no gender uniqueness.

© Feminists believe that male and female infidelity are the same and equal. Not so. He cheats, and she breaks down emotionally and seeks outside help. She cheats, and his sense of significance plummets. This makes her obsolete. He maneuvers to be rid of her—sometimes harshly or violently. Of course it’s not fair, but men aren’t females regardless of how feminists hope to change them.

© Men bond with a woman and strengthen their family responsibility by making themselves useful and proving their worth as rescuers, protectors, providers, problem solvers. But his woman’s insistence on her independence turns him toward escapism in big toys, expensive adventures, irresponsibility, females. To the degree he’s not needed, he’s free and looks to have fun. 

© We all tend to become like those with whom we associate. Feminists for three decades claimed men to be selfish lovers, inadequate mates, and poor responders to female needs. Now, women accuse men of being irresponsible lovers, mates, fathers, and family men. They also claim that men are ignorant of female needs, wants, hopes, dreams, and relationship-building. ♫ Ta da ♫ Men no longer make good husbands. Just as feminists claimed.  

© Feminism makes the worth of women decline in male eyes. Women receive less respectful, harsher, and even abusive treatment.

© Females treated badly further lowers the value of men in female eyes, which helps the political agenda of feminists. Unintended consequence: It hurts the majority of women trying to keep their man.

[Other posts about the Dark Side are 180, 168, 157, 146, 134, 129, 123, 103, 92, 71, 50, 47, and 23. Scroll down or search by the number and then click the title.]

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