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184. Sex and the fickle girl — Part 7

♀ Women are intolerant of their man doing poor quality work, especially if it has to do with her natural strengths of nesting, nurturing, castle-building. Equal sharing of baby-care and housekeeping, for example, provide opportunities for her critical intolerance. He often does not measure up, plus equal sharing is never achievable. Mucho squabbles.

Women as a gender provide sex to be equal with men. Individual females provide sex to capture a boyfriend or husband. By yielding to make herself worthy of a man, she confirms inequality and hints at inferiority.

♀ Women can’t have what they want from a man without rewarding men for husbanding and fathering. His most needful rewards apply to his eyes and stomach. Modern women resent both methods. They reject food prep especially for him. They dress sloppily in the name of comfort. They ignore attractive grooming to copy careless masculine habits.  

♀ If a woman has few moral or religious values to override her emotions, and no personal intensity behind her hopes and dreams, then she far too easily yields to the next man’s interests. She’s highly unlikely to earn enough of his respect to fuel the kind of love that survives the fade out of romantic love.

[More about sex and fickle females appears in posts 170, 160, 148, 137, 93, and 34. Scroll down or search by the number followed by a dot and space.]


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164. Female malpractice—Part 2

Women complain that men need to be told how to relate better with women. Women ignore or forget this difference in the genders: You don’t tell men—collectively or individually—how to relate without producing unintended consequences. Feminism’s Dark Side describes it for men generally. Exes produce the evidence about individuals.

  • She shows signs that she appreciates him, but only when things go her way.
  • She makes her nesting more important than his ego. For example, her drive for fashion outweighs to a fault his desire for functionality.
  • She spends contrary to his frugality.
  • She calls his ego troublesome, while she blithely claims women have no ego.
  • She denigrates his ego, when it’s the outward expression and protector of his significance.
  • She makes herself feel good at his expense. For example, she accommodates the kids while ignoring his priorities or even presence.
  • She rides herd on him to prevent little mistakes or impose her will or preference for how things are to be done.
  • She tells him how to handle and solve his problems at his place of employment. (Men keep silent about their work to prevent her interference and to prevent her judgments about what he tells her—which can never be the whole story.)
  • When associating with his male friends, she tries to act like one of the guys to win their appreciation for either her or him.
  • She tells him HOW and WHEN to do things instead of citing WHAT needs to be done and let him work out the details.

It’s not the big things that hold a man, such as sex, feeding, love, likeability, respect, devotion. The accumulation of little malpractices causes his interests in her to seep away through cracks she causes with disrespectful and ungrateful incidents.

[More about female malpractice appears in post 150. Scrolling down is best, but you can search on the number with a dot and space after it.]

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97. Do women know jack about Jack?—Part 3

Men adapt, obligate, and learn to devote themselves to a woman that refuses to yield sexually. Her hard-headed and unyielding behavior keeps his attention focused on her. If he refuses to grow that way to meet her expectations for her man, then he’s not really into her as potential mate.

  Just as sex does, fashionable attire, charming words, and fun activity help capture a man. But her other-than-sexual attributes hold him beyond the fading of romantic love.

A major facet of a man’s sense of significance rests upon his woman’s faithfulness—and especially his not having to face men who have had her or even know of someone who has.

A man discovers a woman’s non-sexual attributes while searching for weaknesses in order to conquer her. After conquest his search intensity fades away, and her remaining qualities become less dramatically uncovered.

A man does not need refreshment and comfort with a friendly, attractive, and encouraging mate, but he never stops looking if he lacks it.

A man’s conquering nature is not quieted down by either her giving love or providing sex—only by one woman’s non-sexual attributes that magnetize his devotion to her and their family.

♂ A man’s devotion to wife and marriage are not the same. The former is based on his heart, his feelings for her. The latter is based on his mind, values, principles, vows, and his word—to the extent that he honors such things.

A man’s ego reflects his sense of significance and vice versa.

A man’s fruitless pursuit of sex with a woman enables his commitment to evolve into devotion for her. In the process of trying harder, he learns to respect her more and see her as different from the others.

♂ A man’s loyalty to wife and family is cultivated best by a woman mentally and emotionally committed to nesting, nurturing, and nestling in the home.

[More jack about Jack appears at posts 91 and 7.]

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66. Hard-hearted Hannah

A woman easily kills her relationship when she exhibits female weaknesses that harden her heart for cooperation and soften her head into competing with her man. Weaknesses follow:

♥ Facetiousness prompted by fear of being wrong.

♥ Hatefulness prompted by dislike of herself.

♥ Selfishness never untaught to her in childhood.

♥ Busyness pursuing her personal rather than their agenda.

♥ Fussiness inspired by desire for perfection.

♥ Bitchiness that flows from envy, jealousy, and similar emotions related to others.

♥ Fearsome brought on by mistakes that she thinks might be repeated endlessly. 

Quarrelsomeness that emerges from her desire to drive their bus.

♥ Untidiness, the nesting merits of which she was never taught in childhood.

♥  Loneliness imagined when he’s not alongside her.

♥ Lonesomeness caused by husband’s absence at work.

♥ Moodiness that flows from inability to control events to her satisfaction.

♥ Carelessness prompted by weak sense of responsibility.

♥ Sloppiness that reflects badly on husband to his friends and competitors.

♥ Phoniness energized by fear of her true character being found out.

♥ Political correctness brought on by sense of being victimized.

♥ Unfaithfulness that boils in oil her man’s sense of significance.


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