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2073. Compatibility Axioms #471-480


All that follows below is based on the natures of men and women as they are born. Women have to figure out what’s best for them given the lessons they have learned in life and the relationships they enter.

471. Keeping her legs crossed enables a female to control unmarried relationships. It’s her cardinal power to test boyfriends, friends, and acquaintances for ability and willingness to help fulfill her hopes and dreams. [169]

472. Of the friends, acquaintances, and newbies she knows, their potential value becomes evident when ‘no sex with me’ enables men to turn themselves into either Mr. Not Good Enough or Mr. Good Enough. Her experience denying sex makes for better ID of prospective boyfriends and mates.  [169]

473. The longer she holds out against conquest, then the more the best candidate accepts her other values, standards, and expectations. If he fails to accept and honor her wishes and adjust his behavior accordingly, he thus turns himself into Mr. Wrong. [169]

474. Celebrity worship weakens love three ways. It interferes with a woman’s appreciation of self and adoration of her significant other. She compares her boyfriend or mate against someone that appears far better. She wastes time trying to find a match for one of her favorite celebrities. [170]

475. Commitments at the altar mean promises for life. Sustaining promises requires devotion, specifically actions that provide evidence of commitment to both vows and spouse. If devotion to her is not evident before marriage, it’s much less likely to arise afterwards. [170]

476. Every love affair has a fundamental weakness without this: Both partners respect the opposite sex more than their own gender. [170]

477. Men aren’t the greatest listeners when dealing with women. They perceive foremost what a woman’s appearance and actions say about her. Her words don’t impress nearly as much and, in fact, he can become inattentive to them. [170]

478. Women expect men to change and even compromise their nature to please their mate. But men don’t do that, at least not for a woman they have conquered. [170]

479. Women make sex objects of certain men. The sex objects learn that women are so eager that they make themselves reusable and disposable. Men not treated as sex objects learn that such women cannot be trusted, because they play the man’s game. [170]

480. Ladies exemplify female hard-headedness, which men can live with and even appreciate. However, because sluts imitate and duplicate men, they exemplify soft-headedness. It’s reason enough for his escape after his infatuation and lust fade. [171]

 

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1209. Ties That Bind and Blind — #10


  • Females learn the most and best about dealing with men both temporarily and permanently, when they retain their virginity, either real or virtual.
  • Her sexual history is best kept as secret or lacking in details as possible.
  • Women expect men to love as females do, but it’s another gene inequality. Chromosome math always applies for love:  xx ≠ xy.
  • When a woman partakes of promiscuous sexual freedom, she destroys the virtues that inspire a man to prove himself worthy of her.
  • Women too eager for marriage accept a man’s verbal commitment, which usually stands the test of neither time nor other sex objects.
  • Female dominance melts away with a couple’s unmarried sex. He sees her in a very different light after conquest. That light is not complimentary to her, when it comes to who dominates whom.
  • By absorbing feminist politics, women condemn the masculine nature while turning off or tuning out their female nature.
  • If she can depend on herself, she doesn’t need him. If that happens, she’s not grateful for him. If that happens, he’s not too interested in staying with her.
  • Experience with many sex partners hardens a woman’s heart. Enough of it makes her cynical, suspicious, and unable to like herself enough to hold a man.
  • The greater her feminine virtue, then the greater her man’s respect and the more likely her future faithfulness to him. Men expect that first, always, and to be obvious in their woman.

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685. Breasts Exposed in Public — Part I


Several ladies commented on post 682. Boob Exposure: Rest of Story about the public prevalence of bare breasts in Europe. Let’s examine what it means. 

  • Sex objectification is staged by females, but it deals men a pat hand. “They also serve who only stand and wait.” (John Milton) It’s the man’s game, and obviously European women don’t object to playing it.
  • Do European men compare exposed boobs with their woman’s? Does this adversely impact relationships? European women must conclude either NO, it doesn’t matter, or it’s worth it. How do females highly interested in keeping their man feel about such blatant stimulation of the male imagination to conquer other women?
  • Topless women may think they make themselves attractive for men. If so, however, they demonstrate ignorance of male nature and female influence on men. Or, they care nothing about the effect on men, because it reflects disrespect on the male gender, ignorance about taming the animal side of male nature, or both.  

Bare boobs in public personify disrespect for Nature, men, other women, society, marriages, cultural values, morality, and religious standards. It also reflects ignorance about taming male aggressiveness, civilizing boys, and domesticating men for home life.

But that’s not all. More tomorrow.

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501. DATING 10 — Value added


Rejection of men for sex helps shape the dating world.

M In the battle of the sexes, rejection by an assertive lady merely means no score. Ridicule does not flow from it, so she gains value.

M Rejection aggressively expressed with a feminist flavor transmits ridicule. This ranks next to insignificance as a man’s greatest fear with a woman. It shifts him into fight mode to restore his dignity. Her value plummets.

M Yielding her greatest asset for little or nothing devalues her, because her sex partner does the benefit analysis singlehandedly and self-centeredly.

M She decides when to yield. He hopes sooner, but the greater his investment of Self—shared emotions, time, effort, money—the greater her value to him.

M If females look and act like sex objects, they gain temporary value with men but have difficulty making it permanent with a man. Yet, they blame men for responding as Nature dictates.

M Feminine assertiveness compliments a woman. It has far more bonding power than sex, because it earns respect that sex does not.

M Feminist aggressiveness doesn’t compliment women. It offends some men, turns off some others, and makes wusses of the rest. This fallout from Feminism helps corrupt dating as an institution.

If women build up their own value as dates, they can improve both men and dating. They need only abandon their ego in favor of their heart, discard their feminist politics in favor of their Nature, and suppress their general opinion of men when judging individuals.

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170. Sex and the fickle girl—Part VI


♀ Celebrity worship weakens love two ways. It interferes with a person’s appreciation of self and adoration of their significant other. She aspires to celebrity life and cannot get it, or she compares her mate against someone that appears far better, or both.

♀ Commitments at the altar mean promises for life. Sustaining promises requires devotion, specifically actions that provide evidence of commitment to both vows and spouse. If devotion to her is not evident before marriage, it’s much less likely to arise afterwards.

♀ Every love affair has a fundamental weakness without this: Both partners respect the opposite sex more than their own gender. 

♀ Men aren’t the greatest listeners when dealing with women. They perceive foremost what a woman’s appearance says about her. Her words don’t impress nearly as much.

♀ Women expect men to change and even compromise their nature to please their mate. But men don’t do that, at least not for a woman they have conquered.

♀ Women make sex objects of certain men. The sex objects learn that women are so eager that they make themselves reusable and disposable. Men not treated as sex objects learn that such women cannot be trusted, because they so stupidly play the man’s game.

 

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148. Sex and the fickle girl—Part IV


♀ Women expect men to love as females do, but it’s another gene inequality. Chromosome math always applies for love:  xx ≠ xy.

♀ The woman so narrow minded as to enter shack up or marriage based solely on romantic love and his words of commitment will likely join the ex crowd. Other things over which she presides determine success at living together.  

♀ To partake of promiscuous sexual freedom, women destroy the virtues that inspire a man to prove himself worthy of a woman.

♀ Twice-burned as an ex means she chooses losers instead of winners, or she ruins the winners with whom she partners.

♀ When thinking as men do, women lose their relationship management expertise. Female bosses demo it.

♀ When women blame men for relationship ills, they refuse to focus on and consider their own faults. It makes their life simpler but not easier, more frustrating and less happy.

♀ When women define and uphold female virtue, men must make themselves deserving. When men define virtue, women lack their own standards to uphold. Thus, they lose opportunities to earn manly respect.

♀ Women too eager for marriage accept a man’s verbal commitment, which does not stand the test of either time or other sex objects.

[More about fickle females appears at posts 137, 93, and 34. Scroll down or search by the number with a dot following it.

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123. Dark Side of Feminism—Part 07


Feminists begrudge men notching their bedpost as disrespectful of females. So, women initiate sex to compete and match masculine behavior. This enables more and more men to take up notching. Women thus generate disrespect for their own gender.

One biting and lingering effect of Feminism is that women envy men and dislike being female. This mindset empowers men to take greater advantage of women, especially those desperate and unhappy.

The feminist spirit in the home shows up as self-absorption, ridicule of masculine traits, and an in-your-face attitude. Men learn quickly that other choices are available elsewhere.

The feminist spirit makes women ‘stand up inside’ just thinking about a man or men. It’s toxic for a relationship.

Feminism squashed the concepts of female dignity, feminine attractiveness, and social constructs of the lady and lady-like behavior. It made sex objects popular. And now, mutual respect is diluted and unconditional respect practically non-existent between the genders.

Feminist-inspired women justify female sexual freedom, just because men enjoy the freedom. This tremendously weakens a father’s influence raising daughters and discredits him as morality teacher for teenage sons.

Feminists have it all wrong. Just a friendly touch in passing or a pat on the back sends a message of trust that earns a man’s regard if not respect. If he mistakes her friendliness for something else, she has immense powers to turn him off without offense. It’s a small price women must pay to hold onto the respect of men other than their own.

 

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