Tag Archives: worthy

255. Female Fortitude—71 through 75


These ‘fortitudinals’ provide special themes or summaries. Numbers match the posts.

71.      Feminism promotes ‘get in his face’ as the way to protect a woman’s interests. This nullifies her natural strengths for shaping a man’s behavior.

72.      Men don’t voluntarily abandon the hormonal urge of being a man. But they enlarge their persona when coached to do so by one woman. Since improvement requires a man to change, respect is her key to the operating room, submissiveness her surgical instrument.

73.      He can’t be successful to himself, if others see him weakened by his wife. His competitors are outside the home, not inside.

74.      The sexual pleasures for a woman are far outweighed by the other things she needs for a happy life. Men for the most part let sex substitute for whatever else is missing.

75.      When she makes herself worthy of a man by easily or readily providing sex, it doesn’t matter much if she’s pretty and attractive. Sloppy or comfortable will work for her, but it adds nothing to his reputation for having a good looker. This diminishes her worth as keeper.

[Previous fortitudinals appear in posts 250, 245, 240, 234, 228, 213, 203, 199, 186, 182, and 176.]

Leave a comment

Filed under Fickle female, Uncategorized

246. Sex and the fickle girl—Part 11


♀ Modern women let the need to have boyfriend override common sense. His commitment promises togetherness that remains open-ended.  

♀ Women that talk endlessly when with a man cannot also be mysterious. Unless, perhaps, if their jabber stays impersonal, which it seldom remains.

♀ Women make the institution of marriage of, by, and for women and children. Husbands are left out once children are born. Men don’t play second fiddle and remain with that orchestra.

♀ Women tossed away femininity and the social construct of the lady to make room for feminist theory and spirit. Men fake, sidestep, and b.s. around whatever they face to access sexual partners. They wonder, but not too much, why women traded female strengths for masculine weaknesses in order to deal with men.

♀ Wives win this way: Before marriage he proves through devotion that he’s worthy of her; he earns her hand. After marriage she proves herself worthy of him; she maintains his devotion.

♀ When a woman diminishes or weakens showing respect and gratitude for her man, she earns his disrespect. This shifts her away from marital sainthood and positions her for disposal to the ex lane.

[More about sex and fickle females appears in posts 229, 216, 201, 184, 170, 160, 148, 137, 93, and 34. Scroll down or search by the number followed by a dot and space.]

1 Comment

Filed under Fickle female, Uncategorized

244. What daughters never hear—Section 5


♫♥♫ As one woman claimed, Femininity adds color to a man’s black and white world. (Alison A. Armstrong, Keys to the Kingdom, 2003, PAX Programs, Inc. Sherman Oaks, CA , p.151)

♫♥♫ Old School vs. New School—Until sixty years ago females largely withheld sex until engagement or marriage. Men married expecting to stay that way. Nowadays, with sex so freely available, men dodge marriage as unnecessary or depart it as a dumb move.

♫♥♫ She makes her single self worthy of a man and becomes seller instead of buyer. This clicks her for the recycle bin, although he may not dump her until later. 

♫♥♫ By conqueror’s right he takes control of their sexual agenda. She needs to own it until marriage so as to lay groundwork for weakening his dominance after marriage.

♫♥♫ Men separate sex from the gal. Women stupidly let them get by with it.

[More that daughters never hear appear in posts 227, 214, 200, and 183. Scroll down or search by the number with a dot and space following it.]

1 Comment

Filed under Dear daughter, Uncategorized

232. Do women know jack about Jack? —Part 14


♂ When men have to make arrangements for their own meals, whatever woman pushes them into it becomes more easily disposable—except for mom, of course.   

♂ A man enjoys looking at an attractive, pleasant looking female. When his woman looks sloppy and uncaring, he’s bored into looking for something more attractive.

Men graciously live with the exaggeration that a man’s home is his castle. But only when his woman exploits her relationship expertise, showers him with gratitude, and recognizes him as head and her as neck of the family. Anything less is not a castle, and he can have it somewhere else.

Men highly value feminine virtue, because the promise of eventual conquest adds honor to his manly persona and significance.

Men intend to make themselves admirable (if only to themselves) and their life significant—usually above all else.

Men love working or doing what they feel compelled to do. The most reliable men turn their life into loveable work at home and on the job.

Men make themselves worthy of a virtuous woman. If not perceived as virtuous, she has to make herself worthy of him.  

 

1 Comment

Filed under sex differences, Uncategorized

231. Virtual Virginity #13


♀ Virtual virginity is all about earning greater respect. A man’s enduring love—the kind that survives infatuation, lust, and romantic love that fade within a year or two—is founded on his respect. (Without it, the importance of her attractiveness and likeability fades after conquest.)

♀ Virtual virginity exploits the male nature and makes feminine virtue and high standards work for her. (Why so can be gleaned from two series in the Table of Contents, “Sex differences do matter” and “Do women know jack about Jack?”)

♀ Nothing focuses a man’s mind so assertively on changing her mind than continued refusals for their first sex together.

♀ Trying harder and harder for conquest focuses his attentions on her. Over time it convinces him she is more worthy than previously thought.  

♀ When his changing her mind about having sex is paramount, he spends much more time with and dreaming about her.

♀ Her easy yielding gains little respect. Conqueror’s rights plus his natural dominance flourish with far less influence from her.

♀ Her big win comes with being able to curtail his dominance and shape their relationship to fulfill her hopes and dreams.

♀ His dominance will always be present or threatening, but greater respect upgrades her opinions and merges her influence.

[More about virtual virginity appears in posts 212, 198, 181, 169, 158, 147, 136, 125, 96, 70, 51, 44, and 25. Scroll down or search for the number with a dot and space following.]

Leave a comment

Filed under Uncategorized, virginity

222. Female dominance: Gone! —Part 6


Females succumb to male expectations and standards, which lower their value as mates. They accept commitment instead of taking time to generate a man’s devotion.

⌂ Commitment promises togetherness with her. ♥ Devotion delivers his dedication to her.

⌂ Commitment only promises to rule out other women. ♥ Devotion delivers it, because she’s worth not losing.

⌂ Commitment signals she’s worthy enough for him. ♥ Devotion signals she’s more than worthy for him.

⌂ Commitment’s promise of togetherness may last or not, because only time and future tell. ♥ Devotion to her lasts even though living together may not happen.

⌂ Commitment dies easily under daily pressures that eat away at promises and togetherness. ♥ Devotion of self to one person triggers a man’s nature to provide and protect against life’s pressures.  

⌂ Promises require no work at the present. ♥ Devotion exhibits personal sacrifices today.

⌂ Commitment is a two-way, negotiated exchange of obligations. ♥ Devotion is one-way verbal and physical communication aimed at inspiring two-way dedication.

⌂ Commitment leaves room to blame her for togetherness problems. ♥ Devotion bonds him more tightly and inspires him to blame everything else before her.

⌂ Commitment has no obligation to excuse a mate’s mistakes. ♥ Devotion finds excuses to protect one’s mate.

⌂ Promises make only vague and risky commitment, as females see it. ♥ Women crave someone’s devotion.

Commitment is infatuation, lust, love, or maybe empty words. The only proof lies in the absence of breaking up.

Devotion is observable. He courts her delicately and doesn’t push too hard for conquest, because he’s afraid of losing her.

NOTE: She did it again. The nice lady that inspired post 219 also inspired this one.

[More on the shattering of female dominance appears at posts 209, 194, 173, 159, and 151.]

7 Comments

Filed under How she loses, Uncategorized

148. Sex and the fickle girl—Part IV


♀ Women expect men to love as females do, but it’s another gene inequality. Chromosome math always applies for love:  xx ≠ xy.

♀ The woman so narrow minded as to enter shack up or marriage based solely on romantic love and his words of commitment will likely join the ex crowd. Other things over which she presides determine success at living together.  

♀ To partake of promiscuous sexual freedom, women destroy the virtues that inspire a man to prove himself worthy of a woman.

♀ Twice-burned as an ex means she chooses losers instead of winners, or she ruins the winners with whom she partners.

♀ When thinking as men do, women lose their relationship management expertise. Female bosses demo it.

♀ When women blame men for relationship ills, they refuse to focus on and consider their own faults. It makes their life simpler but not easier, more frustrating and less happy.

♀ When women define and uphold female virtue, men must make themselves deserving. When men define virtue, women lack their own standards to uphold. Thus, they lose opportunities to earn manly respect.

♀ Women too eager for marriage accept a man’s verbal commitment, which does not stand the test of either time or other sex objects.

[More about fickle females appears at posts 137, 93, and 34. Scroll down or search by the number with a dot following it.

Leave a comment

Filed under Fickle female, Uncategorized

147. Virtual Virginity—#7


Females learn the most and the best about dealing with men both temporarily and permanently, when they retain their virginity, both real and virtual.

·         He seeks her acceptance for sex. She contemplates accepting him for something more important to her. The battle of the sexes revolves around the subsequent battle of wits and wills.  It takes a lengthy, fun-filled, and complimentary courtship to convert him to her way of thinking. 

·         Her insistence on remaining virgin-like injects and stirs uneasiness and uncertainty into the heart of his masculinized desire. This pressures him into the passenger seat of their relationship. He tries harder to earn the driver’s seat by proving himself worthy and acceptable for sex. If he still can’t earn acceptance into the driver’s seat, he either hops out of the car or accepts whatever greater ‘price’ she keeps insisting upon.

·         If he drops her anywhere along the courtship trail, she escapes with a higher sense of self-worth. He was not a keeper, and she found it out without losing the battle of wills.

·         Her refusals to yield earns a man’s maximum respect. If he dumps her, she accumulates the max regardless of what he says to the contrary in order to force his agenda on her. It’s good practice for her, because a man’s love is based on respect, and she’ll know how to better handle the next man in her life.

·         Her continued refusals tame his masculine ego and condition his dominant nature to accept her as a power to be reckoned with. That brightens her future and self-worth.Thus, women move closer to their dreams and goals by protecting their real and virtual virginity.  

[More about VirtVirgin appears at posts 136, 125, 96, 70, 51, 44, and 25. Scroll down or search by the number with a dot following it.]

1 Comment

Filed under Uncategorized, virginity