1298. An Unflattering Light

I screwed up. I opened a subject I didn’t have to let out of the bag. Stuck with it, however, I owe explanation rather than dodge it. Remember: This blog focuses on the motivational forces that arise from the male and female natures. Their natures before individual values, beliefs, and emotions are implanted.

I commented: “However, what women never hear is this: Any woman loses the respect of the man that she permits to ejaculate anywhere on or in her but her vagina.” Here’s the rest of the story.

Values, beliefs, and emotions override this fact, but both males and females know intuitively that natural sex means intercourse, period. Anything else is wrong or at least contestable as to its propriety. For example, contestable by females.

However, male dominance plays out in many variations that go far beyond the natural. One variant in particular has a dominated person perform something the dominator knows deep inside is wrong. When the dominated person does as expected, they appear in an unflattering light or worse. It signifies to the dominator that he has greater than natural control over the dominated, and thus has less respect for someone so malleable to his will.

Four social and cultural conditions keep women unaware of some truths.

1. Men dominate the pop culture and impose male-friendly values. (When women dominated cultural values, society followed more natural sexual behaviors.)
2. The pop culture hides the universal naturalness of intercourse-only by inventing every deviation conceivable.
3. Many couples continue in relationships with high respect flowing only one way, toward the man. Women learn to live with reduced respect and mutual toleration. Thus, men have frequent and convenient sex at lowest cost to their interest.
4. Men blame other reasons for disrespecting a woman they choose to drop, dump, or abandon. (They exemplify the adage, ‘Never trust what people say motivates them’.)

The rest of the story ends here: Men lose respect for women that don’t hamper and prevent men from satisfying their sexual wishes. Women are kept unaware by the males’ natural drive to dominate. The roots go back a few decades. The Dark Side of Feminism series makes this point: Feminists seek to eliminate patriarchy, but they have only increased male dominance.

At this point, I prefer to drop the subject. I know many objections are forthcoming. However, unless you wish to dispute the natural aspects that I cover, I wish no further comment. We’ve nothing to gain enlarging a subject more appropriate at other blogs.