Human relations are much like the earth. Buried deep beneath the surface of pop culture, churning magma of Feminism, and mantle of shifting political plates lies the solid core of human relations. The hard core splits and shatters from so much turmoil above.
Modern pressures split and shatter relationships.
- Born to earn happiness, women can’t find it because they can’t find gratitude for themselves as individuals. They blame men. It relieves their egos by expecting others to demonstrate their gratitude rather than finding it within themselves. However, finding it within themselves provides women both a good base for finding gratefulness for others and an independent spirit that men admire, call virtue, perceive as unique and fascinating, and contribute to a man’s view of her promise as an ideal mate. (A review of both Mirror Time and Female Blessing at Birth is appropriate to go with this post.)
- Women put too little or no value on what they do in life. They find excuses for their endeavors to earn credit for or within themselves. They use others to measure their effectiveness in life. It’s self-destructive thinking brought on by the ease and eagerness to blame men for female disruption and distress, just as the modern political class has programmed them.
- Being much simpler, men are born to earn satisfaction. They naturally find it in their work but not today in their lives or wives. They blame women because females act so unnatural, so unsatisfying as match-up with the male nature.
- Blame focuses the minds of both sexes on the negatives of the other sex, takes responsibility off the negotiating table, protects the egos of both sexes, and mutual blame continues and spreads.
We have that discordant tune. Restoring beautiful music is the default responsibility of women. They are the relationship experts. They lead in value setting and men adapt to female rules. Men compete with everything and everybody and it takes non-accusing women to induce them to cooperate in marriage.
If more successful marriages are forthcoming, they will arise out of this type of relationship. He marries over his head, rules the roost, and she rules the rooster. Modern women think that love rules but it doesn’t, never has. It’s symbolic. Mutual loyalty and mutual likeability intuitively remove blame from the equation and enable women to rule their rooster.
Modern pressures that split and shatter relationships can be relieved. Women can quit the blame game. They can learn to identify, ignore, and find alternatives to the corruptive influences of pop culture, Feminism, and political correctness. They can withdraw back into their female nature and load it up with feminine qualities. They can find enough gratefulness within themselves that it compounds into a uniqueness that distinguishes each from her sister females.
If we can ever put an end to blaming the other sex for the lack of female gratitude and male satisfaction, social pressures will decrease, and both sexes will look better to the other.
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