These ‘fortitudinals’ provide theme or summary of previous posts. The numbers match the source.
151. Women dominate sex-free courtships.
152. Experience with many sex partners hardens a woman’s heart.
153. Easy marks for conquest earn high marks for dumping to the ex lane.
154. His nature helps virtual virginity work for her.
155. Duplicating the way men act ages women prematurely and leaves them with little grace and charm for their later years.
156. He wonders if she is to be anything more than a sex target?
157. Feminism produces unintended consequences because men don’t respond like feminists say they should.
158. Providing sex can gain his commitment, but that’s far from his devotion.
159. Modern pop music hardens the female heart.
160. Modern women fish with an empty hook in the water, because men steal the bait—sex.
[Previous fortitudinals appear in posts 316, 310, 305, 300, 295, 290, 285, 280, 275, 270, 265, 260, 255, 250, 245, 240, 234, 228, 213, 203, 199, 186, 182, and 176. Search by the number and then scroll down.]
What Women Never Hear 
“159. Modern pop music hardens the female heart. ”
Do you mean as in:
“So you’re a rocket scientist – that don’t impressive me much…” ?
After reading this far in your blog and hearing this song on the radio today, I started wondering if that’s a song that makes the guys feel good, just listening… Not?
Bet, you had something else in mind, though, Sir Guy?
Your Ladylikeness Bee,
You give modern pop music too much credit, especially rock music. It’s a primary tool developed by males to make sex more raw, common, and available. It’s utilized by bands to stir exciting emotions and turn girls into groupies at best and unrespected but paying fans at least.
Rock rhythm and message generates masculine disrespect for the feminine. Females are victimized three ways. (1) Girls self-victimize by elevating boys to idol status. (2) Girls are exploited for sex and disrespected for so easily giving up female values, standards, and expectations. Groupies do anything for idols’ attention. Fans yield much easier to boys as part of the sweeping mass of public sex-oriented activity—the man’s game turned into the standard. (3) The subculture of women traditionally shaped social and domestic values, that is, our culture. However, due in great part to modern rock music aided by feminist sexual freedom, female and family values are overpowered by those of men. Patriarchy strengthens at female and family expense.
Kids have sex. Girls bond and boys dump. Seeking to be more unique against female peer competition, girls initiate sex and become promiscupus. Many sex partners and promiscuity in particular harden the female heart. Loosening of sexual mores exploded with rock music.
Guy
“157. Feminism produces unintended consequences because men don’t respond like feminists say they should.”
– I have noticed this one myself… 😉
Nevertheless, thank you for telling us!
Is fangirlism inspired by excessive admiration? As in the secretary post? or by desperation? Is it even the same thing as when a secretary steals a husband? Because it’s almost guaranteed that the love a fangirl has for an idol will never ever ever be requited.
Her Highness Simplicity Evermore asked what inspires ‘fangirlism’, which I presume means girls worshiping pop icons, idols, and idiots. Such girls are short in the basics. They lack self-respect and don’t like themselves. They have a self-image that requires feeding at the trough of self-centeredness that provides exciting feedback. They lack self-confidence, and hide their lack behind the screen of celebrity worship. They equate groupie association with successful relationships, which means they lack any understanding of male and female natures.
Guy
Thanx Sir guy!! I’ve ALWAYS loved SWING MUSIC and other 50s and 60s pop, even though I was born in the late 50s. Swing music also gets the GUYS on display by having them learn a part of dance instead of STANDING IN ONE PLACE and moving–drug use ALSO increased about the same time —late 60s–I can’t stand Dancing with the Stars UNLESS the women wear below the knee skirts instead of —sigh—-beachwear type bikinis with sequins–radical feminsm makes the teen girls and others ‘lose again’—i’ve NEVER LIKED ROCK and the horrible RAP is 10x WORSE in what it did to women…if you don’t believe me LOOK AT THE BLACK COMMUNITY —it’s dead–unless its women leading the way and telling men to STOP DISRESPECTING THEM —seems impossible though without sounding like a nag